I've been sarging this girl for the last week. She works at the same place I do but we rarely see each other. About a week ago I came out for a workplace get together wearing my gaming clothes (a pretty big difference from my normal business attire). I could see her take notice and at one point she pulled me on the dance floor. I played it cool though and acted as though her attention didn't mean anything special to me.

This past week we were at a conference together and went clubbin a few times in a large group. I used a lot of kino and random some random routines like the 1-10 routine and 4 questions. I even took her hand on three different occasions and got a squeeze back in response. My co-workers began to comment on her visible interest of me. However, all of a sudden she started dancing with random guys who would hit on her. I simply found another co-worker to engage when she did that including her best friend and after that things were never the same. I couldn't figure out what the hell happened. When we went back as a group drunk to our rooms some of the girls were chatting and she loudly brought up some other guy she thought was "hot".

Is she the ultimate shit tester or do you think I lost her interest? I need help.

When she said the other guy was hot, I'd probably say something like "If you buy me dinner I'll hook you up with him" (smile)

1) Shows you don't care
2) false disqualifier
3) raises your value since you suggest she buy you dinner