Hi

I am chatting up a really lovely girl at work. Well discreetly. She is really young - about 22. She is a little bit innocent - very lovely - but an innocent.

She always smiles and giggles like mad when I so much as speak to her. We also chat on messenger while in the office - I hear her giggles across the room. One of her colleagues told her off today for being too happy!

Anyway, would like some advice. I have all the time in the world so no need to rush things. I like the idea of getting her gradually up to level that she really trusts me and would do anything with me.

I want to take her out somewhere - to go onto next level. But as office environment and I know she has a boyfriend (very wet).

I am just myself with her. I basically tell her to do stuff and she does it - its great.

Any adivce would be much appreciated.

Eg how to get her out with me for a drink.

I think she def fancies it - but there is boyfriend in way.

DS

just hit her up with a message b4 lunch and say hey what sounds good for lunch? when she replys say your comming with me right?

be careful man, its really not as it seems all the time. the last female ended up living some double life than none of us (not even her best friend) knew about. i thought she was this complete innocent little angel, and everyone else thought it too, but lets just say i was totally wrong. i was so sure i knew who she was and everything but she really decieved me and pulled a fast one. so i just cut her out completely cold turkey and havent talked to her since. her loss right?

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