Hi all

I spend a few hours each day on the train. A few times I have been near my stop and asked a woman out. Three times so far - they have all said have a boyfriend and wouldn't be fair.

This is conversation roughly I have been having:

They do something and I comment - eg woman looks sleepy or not looking forward to work.

I striek up a conversation.

The woman seems happy to chat.

But when I have asked if they fancy going out for a drink - so far have had boyfriend thing.

Is it just a numbers game - do I just keep asking.

I can understand that the attractive girls I ask out would have a boyfriend. Just wondering if anyone has any great ideas?

... though I suppose just keep asking is probably answer.

DS

Do you not find out anything more about them in the time you talk? There may be things they would be more inclined to agree to.

"Do you fancy going for a drink" translates roughly to "Would you like to go on a date with me (where I can intoxicate you and you may not be safe as you just met me)." Instead, having something interesting that you're already planning to do (whether real at that stage or not), and inviting them to "hang out because you seem fun/interesting/intelligent/whatever"

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Dark Sensual I agree 100% with Infamous110

Its not a case of where you are picking up a woman be it a night club, train, cafe, resturant etc that is the issue- it is the drink invite thats the problem

If you are following the steps of any method- never ever invite a woman out on a date. Her attraction increases towards you.

If she says oh I love this wine bar- resturant etc during rapport and says it is lovely and Id like to go back.
Say well Ok I don't usually take complete random strangers on a date- so when are you going to invite me out?