Every time I build rapport and start to have a conversation with a girl we become good friends. Then when I try to break the rapport or start to be sexual they don't like it because they just see me as a friend. Then Im stuck in this fustrating friend zone thinking what the hell to do next.

One girl I spoke to we had great rapport and I broke it a few times with some light teasing but because the rapport was so strong she comes out with "oohhh thats sweet you can be my little brother" Im like what the fuck, thats the last thing I wanna be.

I just don't get it becuase if I get the rapport sexually they get offended and walk off. if I keep on breaking it lightly they like it but then they don't seem to see me as a potential boy/f just another friend.

Also I find it hard at times because I suffer bad from anxiety and Im a pretty self concious person.

Please help me because I know it's not my looks, Im a good looking guy (don't mean to blow my own trumpet) and I have everything going for me but im still vigin and its soooooo bloody fustrating seeing how others guys get it and I don't.

Sounds like to much comfort and not enough Attraction.

Remember Attraction comes first, only move onto comfort when you get IoI's from her and after you Qualify her, if you go straight into comfort without much attraction then you will be stuck in the LJBF zone..

~ Furb