Before i heard about the pua community i tried to "game" this girl(it kind of worked but i was going to the friends zone plus she has a bf who ive met thru her). Then i didn't see her for a month(in which time i learned about the pua community). When i saw her again this is what happened:

Sunday: I started gaming this girl that goes to my church(you know push-pull, negs), it was actually pretty easy to get her attracted to me. She then texted me a bit the same day(showing her attraction towards me). She started texting me again, so thru text i told her i would meet her(on something i was already doing off course), she agreed.

Mon: when i meet her she gives me like a 4 sec hug-really tight-and i can feel the attraction.---until here everything was good-----then as we started to interact i didn't qualify her i just kept negging her and pushing and pulling(big mistake). When i finally dropped her off we were still talking, but the attraction wasn't there. I had blown it!

Since then i've texted her a few times but she either doesn't respond or answers with one word answers(that makes me so mad!)

What can I do to fix this, to be the 'prize' again?

I dont know if you know this, but push-pull is normally for getting someone to do a certain act with you, wether it is kissing or having sex. It is not normally used to get girls attracted to you, so i am kind of surprised that worked.

Anyway, It sounds like you kept trying to game her while on a date with her. That is an odd thing to do. If she goes on a date you really don't have to neg or do other things as much anymore, you should have just been yourself. I have a feeling you over-used the push-pull and it became predictable and boring to her.

You shouldn't text or call her for now, unless she initiates contact. If you meet her again you should definately talk to her though...

Good Luck

-Smarts

Thanks for the advise smarts, i was still trying to game her because i didn't even think of it as a date until now(i thought it was just hanging out) AND also because of her bf.
I think the push-pull thing kind of worked because i was actually trying to get a kiss(which i didn't get).