ok just joined the other day, id had a crap few days at work and so have no felt like going out on my days off. i spent my last 2 days off doing basically nothing.

im currently very keen to start my path towards becomming a pua but i really have no idea where to start.

I guess the simplest thing would be to learn a small routine and go use it to open. but what i would really like is for a list of things to learn, in an order, then i will start consuming knowledge, so could someone make me a little list, just to get me started as im currently intimidated by the sheer amount i need to learn SPAM

ty all JinxyKatte

Congrats mate, just hang on in there and welcome to the group!
however my pua journey is still in its infancy, so i could tell you how i started if you requested, but there are loads of people who are more experienced than me and probably give you a better well rounded answer!

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i just kinda need a 1st step kinda thing, i dont know where to start, what to learn 1st. someone please tell me where to start,

Im still learning as well, but arn't we all. Here is what I would reccomend:

1.) Read The Game by Neil Strauss- It is a pretty big book, but it is addicting and a good, fast read. This should provide you with a lot of termonology (sp?) and basic information regarding being a PUA.

1a.) Go out and met new people- Talk to girls of all sorts just to get used to it. This should open you up a little and reduce your Approach anxiety (if youu have any).

2.) Read Mystery Method- This is where the most deviation occurs. Some people seem to be more drawn to certain things, such as NLPor other methods regarding PUA. After reading The Game you should have an idea about what you want to read next.


.... But most importantly just keep sarging and you will learn a lot man!!

Good Luck

-Smarts

Ok here's what I what I'd recommend:

1) Read Mystery Method, [the older stuff like the Venusian Arts Handbook or the How to Get Beautful Women book... etc]

2) Read The Game

3) Befriend a 'player' this way you can watch and learn first hand how it's done... this helps heaps!

4) Work on your look/avatar this helps with confidence and helps to make you more approachable.

5) Your first sets should be at a nightspot they are more likely to run smoothly...and since your a beginner how about only approaching those who either gave you approach indicators or were in very close proximity to you.. for sets like these you can actually just open with something as simple as Hi/Hey/etc. but feel free to use an opinion opener.

this is pretty much how I started and I got pretty good very quickly...
Body Langauge is a big one, so is social proof, and your avatar if you have these nailed your well on your way.