Where should I take this girl for a first "date"?

I have known this girl for a like a month. She is an easy 8-9. When I first met her I knew ahead of time that she was going to be hot so I totally negged her and expected to get nothing from her because I was giving my buddy a shot.

One month later, after the bars, we went back to her place and I slept in her bed and madeout with her and petted her through her panties. She was totally grinding her clit into my thigh and moaning as I licked her neck and ears.

We went to sleep with our underwear on bra included, by my decision as to show I am not out just to fuck her. She thinks I am a "player" and will hurt her (she's right about the hurt part) and I think that the sex will be better if I just wait for her to get comfortable with me.

We went out again and at the end of the night she left with her friend, but not before telling me that she is 'nervous' about where things are going with us.

I have her in the bag, just how do I gain her trust?

One word: PAINTBALL

Builds trust, its fun, and , well... Let say it really brings out the character in the girl.

One problem: EXPENSIVE

Something that has worked for me is any athletic/sporting event that you both can participate in ( not just watching it). The local YMCA (or something similar) is cheap, and not "just another dinner date"

Basically, Tennis, Basketball, biking, and maybe, MAYBE bowling (just because its a bit cliche)...You know what, no bowling...

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Paintball? I have never really though of it but that is a great unique idea. I have got to hand it to you there man, great idea!

But what do you have against bowling? It can be a great way to get to know a girl and could be a decent first date. Also if you know how to bowl even the slightest, it can be a great way to build kino by "teaching/showing her how to bowl." Also there are many opportunities to be C&F during a bowling date. If you can't think of lines that are cocky funny about bowling...wow.

I totally agree with paintball. One of my best dates was doing paintball, and that was with a girl i'd been seeing for a month. I noticed quite a big bond after that and got laid that night

Just don't shoot her in the arse

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Take her to an amusement park. Studies show that roller coasters and thrill rides build attraction.

just saw a funny thread about taking a girl on errands with you, then tpooing it off with making out in a car wash

i thought it was original lol

take her to a large Toys R' Us store and wreck some havoc! It was fun for me and I'm 22, ohh and she def had fun too!!!

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I agree with taking her to a store and playing with things and not buying anything.

I'd suggest doing something cheap that would give you guys a little alone time as well. I like to cook for girls and watch some TV (her place, my place.. doesn't matter)... i.e. the girl helps with adding the ingredients while I chop up the veggies. You don't need to make it so romantic, just do it so you get comfortable being around each other and working as a team.

Also, not pressuring her with any physical action will draw her need for that feeling of security. Certain girls in positions where they've been hurt badly in the past need to feel that trust and respect before they let you in (no pun intended). Make her feel at ease and hold back ..but give her that wry smile that lets her know you're ready to flood her with passion.

//i feel like i should be writing in a womans magazine column.

Personally, bowling just isnt for me (i.e. guy dropped it on my foot one.

NOTE: If your too cheap for paintball, airsoft is a good alternative. Most guys have a few pistols lying around. Go outside and role play like your hunting each other. It re-enforces the fact that you are an object of desire.

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I am, YET, not a good PUA, but, one thing i noticed while i had girlfriend (for a long long time) and some adventures with others, was that they freakin love when u take them to an Impressive (yes, it rhymes with expensive) restaurant, you will even notice their eyes shining, it's like it gives them confidence and desire. Good effect of this? They get more comfortable to do what we wall want

Hope i'm not rong on this one.