Born and raised in america.. no accent nothing but i come from middle eastern background and my name is Ashur ... i usually lose it right THERE with the women...so lately ive been telling them my name is Sarge


my last name is Sargis... so it kinda fits...should i use that nickname because women just cant really say my name at first

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what's wrong with ashur? it sounds interesting, and if girls can't say it after you told them then you have something to bust them on right away dude!

Don't be ashamed of your name. If she can't accept the fact that your name is actually tight as shit then she can go fuck herself because she won't be getting any from you.

Just introduce yourself with a nice rythym.

You: So what's your name?
HB: Blabhalbhablabla, and you?
You: I'm Ashur, but only close friends and special people can call me by that. You can call me Sargis until then.

You get it? Put some value on that name man. Let the bitch work for it. Haha enjoy.

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Many people, myself included, use their PUA names in the field. For you, however, doing such a thing will only be a cop-out.

I'm willing to bet that you have a lot of bad AFC habits such as speaking softly, leaning in (pecking), coming off as needy and not confident, taking value, etc. This gives girls an EMOTIONAL reason to reject you. Since the reason is emotional, they can't explain it logically and can't even justify rejecting you, so they withhold themselves from doing it. When you finally tell them your real name, you provide them with a LOGICAL reason to reject you. They don't really care about your name; they're just looking for an irrelevant reason to reject you that sounds more justified in order for them to backwards rationalize their cognitive dissonance away.

damn guys thanks alot for the tips, ill try to be more firm and shit not lean in .. thx alot every1 especially Chief

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Dear Ashur Fuji Sargis,

You have an impossibly cool name.

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thanks alot man

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Agreed. If I had a cool name like that, I totally wouldn't go by Rye instead of what's on my driver's license.

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Your name Is a DHV! its interesting as fuck!

You need to keep that name!

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