im having a few problems having success sarging in my own fraternity. In some ways it is great because girls come to my own house to party and get approached, but in some ways it is more difficult than other places. false time constraints are tricky because im going to be at the party for most of the night and the girls will see that. another problem is isolating the target since most of our parties are in a crowded basement or living room area where isolation is nearly impossible and while i do have my room upstairs, it seems to be a bad idea to ask someone to go to my room since that implies having sex usually. I also think being a frat bro might be a dhl. Any advice to help a bro out?

You don't necessarily need to isolate your target all the time. Just go up to her or her friends and chat. Then after a few minutes hop to another set and they will probably want you since they see you talking to other girls... if you did your work right.

But don't bring her to your room or your car or anything, that's creepy unless she wants to / knows you.

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In order to succeed, the desire for success must be greater than the fear of failure

lol "you kinda resemble a pornstar i know

not saying its a bad thing

because i'd fuck both of you"

do u think i can use canned openers in a closed environment like this or just try to wing it?

Here's a few simple easy things you can do.

Get a friend/brother in on it. Let him know to come take you away for "something important". It's hard to create your own false time constraints but if you have to be taken away it can be a decent substitute. Granted, being asked to come away will never have the power of leaving of your own will but it's better than sitting around letting the set die out.

Another thing is get yourself heavily involved in the planning and facilitating of the party. If you have duties to perform while at the party it can not only work as a FTC but also a DHV because you're than a host, someone who takes care of and leads the herd. It's also both a display of authority and a display of the protector. All of those are good DHVs.

Also, many fratboys for whatever reason tend to conform into carbon copies of each other. Try doing some things to stand out from the rest of your brothers. Peacocking and other independent behavior should really help.

DHL? Isn't that a package delivery company with yellow trucks?

Anyway, the dynamic of college game is a lot different than "real world" game. You have to use Social Circle Game, Natural Game, and Direct Game if you want to be successful sarging at your Fraternity parties.

I don't know about your school, but at mine having letters on your chest is usually a DHV.

Oh, and to the class of 2012, RUSH SIGMA CHI.