| Hey,
Story starts: Me sees a girl, me thinks she's cute. Me doesnt do a move yet.
One day suddenly, we're having a fun fair at uni and she's selling cakes. All her freinds are there and my freinds are nearby.
I go upto her and challenge her to 5 questions game, if i win, ig et free cake, else i pay double for it. She takes the offer. She looses, I basically bust her balls in front of everyone big time, and Just snatch her cake and we all eat laughing and high fiving lol. Day over.
Then we h ave lodz of eye contacts, i dont make a move, koz my GF in same uni, and we're going through confused periods, not knowing what to do with relations. So to avoid getting screwed on both ends, I do nothing. I do however do some eye contacts now and then. She tries to qualify to me, always pretending to talk on her phone, but ijust ignore that she realises its not working so she stops.
On the other hand, me and my gf break up, this girl, however finds out i hada girl, but i have a freind among thier group (spai game!) and i tell him to feed info to her and we manage to cover that up nicely.
Anyway, there is another girl in the same group and we've had alot of eye contacts, she even came up to me other day asking for some project help (i r senior), i tell her somethings, then pretend im too busy with my own projects.
But we do eye thing sometimes, anyway, last night, there's a party, my ex is there too and other girls too, (my g had said earlier, she had no probs me hitting other girls and we should be best freinds, i thought saying no would make me look like a dick, so i said k), anyway, my ex leaves before dinner, (its semi-formal event btw), and the two girls and thier group is nearby, im in no mood to game as my mind is busy with backstage politics, nonetheless, i catch her looking me, and i pass a really cute smile (speciality!) , and goto my freinds and chat, totally ignoring her. Now suddenly, my spai freind coems up to me (he is an AFC! least alpha person around!) and says that her freinds wanna talk with me and im like lolz k, so i go and we talk, i just say her cake wasnt bad bla bla and one of her freinds saying they used my same game to earn money lol, and i disqualify it saiyng i earned many other things from it, now the girl (HBA henceforth) seems really interested, we have this good eye contact and lodz of chemistry going on, the other HBB is shy and just smiles etc, doesnt talks much, she's' one of those girls (who dun wana get into BF thingy), anyway, we talk, then i excuse myself and talk with my freinds outside and when they approach, we have like pics together and she's all near me (i missed the opp to kino! now i realise it), and when i take the group photos for thme, she doesnt really want me to be out of the pic) anyway
i think its been a good day today, but then :S my spai freind tells me she has a BF in another uni, and i manage to verify the info through one other source.
Now this confuses the hell out of me and frankly, i dunno what she really wants, she doesnt looks a bitch sort of girl. Anyway, my ex finds out and suddenly is v. jealous, and nonetheless, my and my other gf have been together for 2 years, and she had in the past talked about suicides too lo, but she's been cool with the breakup so far in a way, but i dunno, she might mess it up and u know girls and unis, ones ur rep is gone, ur in shit and our campus is really small SPAM with around 300-400 ppl and most ppl know each other or thier networks keep everyone connected so new travels to everyone basically within few hours.
Anyway, i' can just say bb to my ex nd talk h er out but this HBA, i dunno, she has a bf and she's quite committed to him from waht i heard, so either they's just thinking i can be thier fun toy or something or frankly im not sure, ur the pros, u guys gauge the situation.
Also pls evaluate my good and bad points.
About myself: Not a leader, but not a follower. Working on being the most alpha. Not v. social, but trying to change that and its much better than before. Did I had AA last night? Hell yea. Did I fixed it during the second meeting outside? hell yea. She was all being sticky with me during that time.
Anyways, time for u to talk.
|
CHAT
