ok i'm an amateur boxer and I made up an opener and routine because I really am curious about this question. I was wondering if you guys had any ideas on how to touch it up

"ok guys I only have a second but I need a female take. I was having an argument with my ex girflriend and I have a boxing match coming up next year. My trainer wants me to lose 15-20 pounds and she was saying no no no thats too thin you won't look attractive you're going to look anorexic! I was telling her that I want to do whatever it takes to win, but the more I thought about it the more I realized that I might look a little malnourished. Do you guys think if I shed 20 pounds would that be unattractive?"
Then I would transition into talking about models and how they're gorgeous but they don't do it for me because they're too thin. Also ask them if they've ever been on a diet then go into a story about how it's so hard to diet with humour laced tidbits...

anything you say, if said in the right way, will do just fine


just my opinion, asking them if they think whether you'll look attractive? Do they really care?

Maby add in "my friend, she reckons I shouldn't lose the weight, but my other friend blah blah blah"

I'm not an expert at this stuff, but if you can, try to make them more connected to the question.

To me, it seems a little lengthy. You're trying to put too much into the first interaction.

I would maybe start off with asking about the models. Get them interested in that and then transition into your dilemma.

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