My situation so far(this is over a MS Message):


Zen - "by the way do you wear a wig?"
HB7 - "BAHAH NOOOO!? WTH!"

Zen- "ohh, I just thought because your hair is beautiful in your pictures."
HB7 - "So it cant be real and beautiful?"


...what now my AFC is kicking in hardcore >_<

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Not something i would've personally gone for. It's too complimentary to be honest. A part of gaming a chick is to make yourself the centre of her world even if just for a minute as opposed to the other way round, if she truly is a HB7 then she'll be used to guys fawning all over her. Your job is to never seem like AFC's and thus you instantly failed. Give it up and move on. Go back to the basics.

Talk about yourself and control the conversation as such (build attraction)

Allow her to share stuff about herself (build comfort)

Then take the whole thing offline.

Instant failure? mhh well that means I have much to work on.

Lets say we started over, how should I talk about myself, as in what to say. Then what questions sound good enough to ask when you want her to share stuff?

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Think simple and subtle, so what you'll attempt to do is bait her with seemingly random chit-chat. Remember that by looking like innocent conversation, you're instantly winning. So for example, if she's from a different city, you can mention that you were there recently for something of interest, at which point she'll ask a question about said subject and you can use that opportunity to talk up yourself. The key in general is to make it all look innocent, you're trying to make think about you before you show any visible interest in her. The last chick i gamed via MS, started out as a conversation about a band in her top eight.

In regards to how to get her to share stuff, it's all situational dependant, so there's no real "use this" however, just remember that you're trying to get her to feel and show comfort with you and not trying to learn her life story. As soon as you got the goods, suggest an offline meeting.

You are doing this over myspace?

Here's one that recently went well for me on myspace: here-vp131620.html#131620

Basically, after reading the Internet Gaming forum for a bit I started doing it. I have done some pretty good ones with the wig opener.. But I find being totally random and 'fun' fits my personality better. What I did was to open with the subject as "=)" and the body "oh really?". This instantly intrigues most people.. they're like.. Oh really what? lol. Then I just neg her slightly, always trying to sound fun and interesting.. I tried to do a cold read. Actually, I really would like to improve on that shit, if anyone knows any good websites/posts please hook me up? I love the way you just say random positive things and traits that almost everyone has and they're like WOW!

So there we go, now I was Mr Interesting, it was plain sailing for the msn addy. Now I just have to go from there.

Anyway, I digress.

My advice:
Try the opener 'oh really?'
Read the MYSPACE METHODS thread on the internet forum
Keep Practicing! I've sent out probably 50 openers. Some never reply, some never reply to my second reply.. some fall for it a TREAT.

Anyway, if you need any real time help, i'd like to broaden my contacts and get real time help myself sometimes lol. Just ask for me msn addy

Hood

careful with stuff over myspace!

im assuming youve read cocky and funny stuff by david d...


...but things on the internet can be taken out of context coz voice tone and body language is missing!