There is a girl I've known for quite a bit and have had good rapport with.
She Refused to make cookies for me when the cooking subject came up.
I don't know what I said that lead it to the wrong direction.
Can you please show me whats wrong.

This happened online.

Background information: Lately she has been talking about another male to make me jealous so far whenever brought up I say "aww thats cute"
And has not affected the conversation.
And this girl is normally testy.

Me: Are you good at making cookies?
Her: yeahh why?
Me: Great its settled
Me: Your making me some
Her: no
Her: vaughn won't make me waffles or pizza
Her: so why should i cook for you?
Her: ahha
Me: great he can help you make them =D
Her:pshhh
Me: I like sugar cookies please
Her: noo
Her: ehh
Her: why do i have to makwe them for you?
Her: aha
Her: tell me why
Her: and a good reason
Me: im tryinggg but you keep typinggg
Her: ahaa
Her: over type me then
Her: jeez
Me: pshhh
Her: ahha you slow typer
Me: you should make them because its a great opportunity for me to eat some
Her: well...
Her: you can go buy them and tahts a greast opportunity for you to eat them
Me: haha
Me: Wheres the love in that?
Her: the bakers in the factory make them with love
Her: jeez
Her: they have feelings too
Me: haha
Me: its okay
Me: i want them from you
Her: i got you a sandwich already
Me: haha
Me:its okay
Me:you can take 7 hours to make cookies for me
Her: It doesn't take 7 hours
Her: ahah
Me: it won't be too long
Me: really?
Me: that book lied =/
Her: Noo..
Her: It takes like 30 to 45 minutes
Her: But thats with baking them in the oven and everything
Her: i can just give you the dough... not saying i will make them though
Me: *takes notes* go on
Her: No
Me: thats a lot of information
Me: im a bad baker you can do it
Her: nooooOOoooOOoooOOoo
Her: im to laaaazzzyyy
Me:but you have vaughn to help you so its all good
Me:i hear hes a good chef
Her:pshh
Her: yup
Her: he owes me waffles and a pizza
Me:russians are really good
Me:they make these fine russian quisences
Me:cuisines
Her:really..
Me:si
Her:im hungry
Me: his name sounds russian
Her: he doesn't lok russian
Her: he lives in america
Her: silly
Me: omg! thats so cool
Me: i like him already
Her: washington.. ahah
Her: i met him at youth conference
Me: really? me too?
Her: what?
Her: ahha
Me: we were talking about how bailey was such a crazy person
Me: and we agreed
Her: rightt
Her: you werent at youth conference
Me: aww. i wasnt?
Her: noo
Me: thats too bad
Her: it was down by/at birch bay
Me: oh really now?
Me:aww
Me: i guess i was talking to a different vaughn
Her: rightt
Her: you don't even know what he looks like
Her: and my hour is up..
Me:great its settled
Her: but im to lazy
Her: to go leave
Her: and im hungry
Her: and no more things that are settled
Me: a perfect opportunity for you to cook them
Me: err bake*
Me: well ive been on too long im going to run
Me: later.
Her: bye


Please help thank you

STOP begging. You come off like you're whining because she isn't giving into what you want. You should have dropped it after she refused the second time and come back to it later from a different approach. Instead you've now built up a big wall because you were pushing so hard that she's got her defenses up against ever making your cookies.

Now you're gonna have to come at it from a completely different angle, where it's gonna be worthwhile for her and she's gonna feel happy to make you cookies.

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Dude I don't think she's respecting your authoritah

My suggestion is since you F'd up, move on.

If you don't want to and catch oneitis, try a different approach on the cooking subject. If you can't think of a different approach, then ask for one ^_^

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dude its just cookies man... you sound kinda weird pressin that issue. After about the second denial you shoulda just changed the thread.