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Im 22 and im a bartender and im new to PUA. I just read the game and checked out alot of the mystery method. Im not a shy person so thats not the problem. I just dont know if it comes off creepy to pick up on girls while i bartend.
I dont bartend at a club but a resturant so i have time to talk to people at the bar and its not loud and dark but i dont know how to come across sense im required to talk to them in the first place.

Any thoughts???! :D :D :?: :?:
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Totally do it. I just started a job bartending and unfortunately no one can sit at the bar because of the way the restaurant is set up, but if they did, then it would be a great place. You instantly have a time constraint, so you can't hang out there talking to them all day, plus you aren't able to really do anyting or talk for more than a couple minutes, so it's great for telling her that you should pick the conversation up again later and get her number.

As one of my buddies said, "bartender + pua = epic win" lol!

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yeah and if you play music in the bar play T-Pain's "bartender" whenever you see a hot girl :P
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I have a few good friends bartending at a top nightclub and they keep picking up girls faster than you'd imagine :D! Ofcourse its a nightclub, but being a bartender has something to it (so say my lady-friends), so go for it, use it to your advantage! ;)
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I was thinking the same thing today. I just got a job as a server in a restaurant today. Mostly thanks to my PUA skills at the interview. So I was definitely gonna transfer my skills to tip getting( chicks do it...why not right?) and restaurant pickups.

Happy hunting =D

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I was thinking the same thing today. I just got a job as a server in a restaurant today. Mostly thanks to my PUA skills at the interview. So I was definitely gonna transfer my skills to tip getting( chicks do it...why not right?) and restaurant pickups.

Happy hunting =D

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I'd say it will definitely benifit you as far as tipping goes. As far as picking girls up, although you're in a good position for it, make sure you're careful that your boss doesn't catch you doing it, because I've heard of guys getting in trouble for that. For a bartender it isn't so bad because they can easily just walk away if they aren't interested, but for a server, they are stuck with you and it can make them so uncomfortable that they don't come back (this is the thinking of the managers I talked to).

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The reason it works is because you are technically not a threat - you talk to them because it's your job to do so - good barchat means more drinks bought because you make the bar inviting. Anything you say will be absorbed because you are not seen as hitting on them. Same applies in any workplace. You can hit on someone without them actually knowing but they will take in what you say and depending what you say will effect your outcome.

Let the games begin. You're going to be a Lion amongst the gazelles!!
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I was thinking the same thing today. I just got a job as a server in a restaurant today. Mostly thanks to my PUA skills at the interview. So I was definitely gonna transfer my skills to tip getting( chicks do it...why not right?) and restaurant pickups.

Happy hunting =D

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I'd say it will definitely benifit you as far as tipping goes. As far as picking girls up, although you're in a good position for it, make sure you're careful that your boss doesn't catch you doing it, because I've heard of guys getting in trouble for that. For a bartender it isn't so bad because they can easily just walk away if they aren't interested, but for a server, they are stuck with you and it can make them so uncomfortable that they don't come back (this is the thinking of the managers I talked to).


Lol, im not a nooby PUA....or a creeper. The whole point is to make the girls want to pick YOU up. So, with that said, I think i'll be all right. Plus how can I refrain? Opening sets is natural now, and they we'll be handed to me. =)
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You don't even have to run game to pull pussy being a bartender. The job is game itself. Just don't let bitches use you for free drinks. I work as a bouncer at a club and women always expect to get in free because they are nice to you in the club, but act like they don't know you out of it.
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