Hopefully one of you guys can help.

I've been done PUA for a few months and had reasonable success. Back in March I managed to get it on with a work collegue. I used various techniques and we ended upgetting a hotel room and having a great time.

For the next month or so we went out a few times and had great sex, at the start of all this I stated thatI wasn't looking for anything heavy and just see how things go etc. She was cool with that although did send me a text drunk once saying "Just so I know is this just a laugh or do you see it goingsomewhere". I think I replied with see how things go or something related.

She was really into me and texting quite a lot and wanting to hang out.

Well about a month ago we were due to go out again but she had been a bit 'off' with texts - normally we had naughtly little texts going but she wasn't responding any more with those but just normal ones.

Eventually she came out with would it be ok just to be friends. This caught me off guard a little as I was actually starting to like her more than just in a PUA way. I wasn't sure how to play it but I know her house mate does like to sow seeds and I am sure she has said nasty things about me.

Anyway, I said sure cos I did like her and hoped I could turn her round.

Now we are at a stage where we have been to a gig together and had a great time and also I've been out on her birthday night - both times we have had sex (both of us drunk). On the first time she did say something like "Oh but I thought we agreed to be friends". She has sent me a couple of texts saying if I minded being friends and that. So I am a bit confused.

I'm thinking that she did see me as an option at one point but now doesnt.

I have found out that she has slept with someone else on a one off which I must admit made me feel jealous.

We are still texting silly things and I am trying to get her one on one to tell her what I am feeling and stuff - the other two times weren't suitable as I didn't want to spoil it. She has said that we get on like a house on fire and I don't believe she is looking for someone else suitable. She has just moved out of her parents and is now in her friends house so I'm thinking she wants to relax and have a laugh?

But I think in someways I have come across as not mysterious enough now and that she thinks she can have me if she wanted.

Whats the best way of me demostrating value back to her (in the past she has said I was bragging about things and always had stories which seemed to put her off). I wante to make myself irrestiable again.

I am trying to line up a weekend night together and it has been mentioned in the past that she would love to watch a tv marathan of a particular show that we both love but I want to organise it without pushing things and seeming desperate.

Please help as this has got me stuck!