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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 4:02 am 
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I can't figure out how to run game there. Every 21+ club I've been to has the music too fucking loud. And there always seems to be a speaker right next to me, wherever I'm standing.

So, I'm guessing I have to learn a different kind of game that's just related to Eye Contact, body language, and perhaps a bit of direct game?
This isn't really taught in the mystery method so I'm thinking of learning from Keys To the VIP or something. But even in the clubs shown there, people can actually have conversations without leaning in or going "huh?" "whaaat?"

Another thing is, I see a lot of people standing around having conversations, and I'm extremely confused as to how the fuck they are able to understand what the other person is saying? Maybe they're all just so used to the loud music that they've become deaf to certain frequencies?
I don't wanna ruin my hearing so I'm gonna buy some high quality ear plugs the next time I go clubbing. These are really nice. http://www.etymotic.com/ephp/er20.aspx
Also, I think my voice doesn't travel well in noisy environments. I have a deep voice.

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Don't go by Keys To The VIP; it's television and there is no telling of how set up things could be ranging from the casting of competitors to decoy's being placed in the club.

I had similar feelings watching it that something didn't seem to convey a real, natural club vibe.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 4:38 am 
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yea' i thought of that too. but doesnt hurt to try some of the things they do.

any other ideas then?
I've also read numerous times the suggestion of gaming in the quieter areas of the club and to avoid the dance floor at all costs. So I've been doing that, but the targets I want are always near the dance floor and the music is really loud no matter where I go.

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Speak from your diaphram and your voice will carry better. There are lots of techniques out there to teach you how to do this, but basically if you put your hand on your solar plexus and push your words out with your breath, you feel that area push out too; that's how you know you're doing it right. It also helps keep your throat from getting sore and your voice raspy. I can go out to the club every night and my voice never gives out using this.

The other part of this, is to position your body so that you are talking right into each other's ears, while maintaining good body language. I do this by facing my target and offsetting our bodies, so one of my legs is between hers and vice versa, then we're speaking right into each other's ears without having to lean in much.

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