Hey im new here

I want to know which book i should read first as an introduction to this "world" and to start "building myself" ?
I dont want to read books like "THE GAME" first as its too systematic. I want more general stuff first and then move on to specific system("build myself"and understand basic things first).
Based on recommendations in outher posts i was thining about one of those books:
Magic Bullets(by Savoy), How To Become An Alpha Male(by John Alexander) or Without Embarrassment(by Michael Pilinsk).
Then move on to things like THE GAME, DYD, The venusian arts, The art of approaching and so on ....
What do you think about my idea and which book you think should be my first ?
thx