I've developed a case of oneitis on a coworker who has a boyfriend. I feel like we have some chemistry, but I haven't been able to get a read if it is totally reciprocated or it's just me. She has never mentioned her boyfriend but I have never taken the interaction beyond friendly flirting.

Anyway, we are on summer break and we hadn't talked in a week or so, so I sent her an email to see if she checks her account over the summer. It basically said I had a question for her. She replied with a "what's up?". I then asked if she wanted to go to the mall with me sometime but left the date open ended. This was like 3 days ago and no reply.

My main issue is that this was an attempt to get over my oneitis. I kind of figured she would email me back LJBF or I have a boyfriend or she might even say sure. Either way I could move forward from there, but now I'm way confused. In my mind I'm thinking maybe she likes me and doesn't want to tell me about her BF (she doesnt think I know about him), but I'm also thinking maybe she just wants to blow me off.

What's your guys interpretation? Believe me...I know how AFC this is. I'm working on that!

Give it a couple more days. Three days really isn't much time.