HB8, busted her balls all night, flitted between her and friends, didn't cling, K closed a number of times, then caught the number, facebook etc. The great thing was this was all done whilst not very drunk (ok, a bit tipsy!). First time in a long time this has happened so i was buzzing off it.

Did i make the mistake of texting her too early, two days later? (will PM the contents of the text for anyone willing to help...) Haven't heard from HB yet a few days later. Feel the beginnings of the oneitis developing also which has been a PITA in the past and I want to get over it.

Time to continue sarging and let this one slip? Is she playing alpha? Or did she just lose her mobile?

Any help appreciated. Great forum BTW

Heh, I doubt she lost her phone. I don't really do texting, it's too impersonal for my taste. However, if you text her and get no reply, you could text her again teasing her about being shy or whatever. If she doesn't reply to the second one then drop her. If she wants to talk she'll reply, if not then there's no point in calling and texting her anymore.

could do, it would probably be construed as needy and desperate though.

think i'll wait a few days then re-approach it as you have said, one liner type stuff.

time to sarge on me's thinks, cheers fella

There's a fine line between not being needy and being an ass. There's nothing wrong with texting a second time because she may not be sure about the first message and needs a little push to get moving. If you get no reply after the second message though, forget about her.