hi am a 18 year old senior,
So i just started to become a pick up artist or trying. but everything i am doing has been going wrong and idk why it is going wrong.


the first thing i really cant do is go up to a girl and talk to her. when i try my openers they sound stuped. So i got blow off by like 2 girls. but idk i think i am just got scared that everything was going to go wrong like it did. because i had 3 changes to get a girl and yet i fail in all.


the first thing was "the max" it is like a school dance type thing where a lot of people go to and well i went to it with my friends. when i looked around i saw a lot of girls i could talk to yet i got scared like i aways do. Then i went for the easy target the younger girls and i dance with them.......... fail

the secend thing was a graduation party thing that i went with my parents because they new the parents really well and their daughter is grauating from high school like me so there was a lot of girls there. yet i stayed with my parents and didnt do any openers or anything. but i new a lot of girls liked me........... fail #2


the third and last thank god. i was sitting at home when i got a txt from this girl that i meet at a party and my friend hooked up with but didnt go well and to make the story short we r not friends when him any more. but back to the girl i started txting her because she txted me one of those txt saying if u dont sent this txt to 10 more people than u will die or something. but as we talked i thought she was digging me........ but hell was i wrong i ask what she was doing and she said she was at a sleepover
I was like sexy this is going to be good my luck is changing but then i ask a question saying "i want to ask u a question carrie that no guy nos what really happens at sleepover". she sends me back a txt
"i am goin going to kill u".
and i thought she was just joking and i asked y? but then she said just stop talking.

can anyone help me with going up and starting with women becuase my openers r not working

Don't feel bad, I was a socially-inept child with aspergers so I definitley can understand your ability to not read into things well. I used to chicken out on asking an attractive woman what math homework was in 9th grade because I was afraid she would think I was hitting on her and think I was a pervert or something and I wouldn't approach a girl to save my life and now I get HB10s tp cheat easy; out of respect I will only do it if their boyfriends don't treat them right. You can make anything happen just keep searching and trying until you hit upon what works for you personally.

You need to get your anxiety under control so that your body language can stay congruent with your openers. It's not so much what you say (10%-20%) as HOW you say it (80%-90%) so if you're speech, demeanor and expression is not confident you are going to fail every time; women are world class body language readers and are far better at it than most men. I can say with fair certainty that is your delivery and not your words that are failing.

- Chris