Hey All,

Kinda clueless on this one...

What does it mean when you meet up with a girl for lunch and she brings her friend??

I've been keen on this HB from college for a while, I've attempted to get together with her for a coffee that sort of thing. (so she knows)

Got her number again from bumping into her...(visible IOI'S)

Finally organize to meet up with her for some lunch.

And she brings her friend, not even a close one at that...a classmate.

What's up with that? am i being put in the LJBF zone?

peace

p.s lunch went well, and i got away with telling her she was sexy in a text (e.g. asked her if she had changed a certain something about herself..then replied with "i guess its still sexy")

Its college, it could be she just bumped into one of her friends, turned out both were heading for lunch so she decided to join. Doesn't necessary have to mean anything.

Ofcourse its possible that she is trying to avoid alone-time with you, this would mean that she is not interested. Try to figure out if she intentionally avoids being only with you or if its juts coincidence.

1. LJBF
2. she's scared to be ablone with you

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It's a comfort thing. By bringing the friend along, she now has an ejection plan and can easily say, "Oh, well we've gotta run to...that thing...." Plus her friend is an obstacle so that you can't make any moves that she isn't comfortable with. It doesn't mean anything aside from she's not hooked on you yet. You just keep going and in a bit she won't need things like that to feel comfortable.

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its not that you in the ljbf zone ,its just that you go to collage with her and nothing else so she wasnt to comfortable with going alone but she showed up thats the important part because she wants to see you its just abit new to her to be alone with you,just get her more comfortable with you.maybe suggest a movie and tell her to bring a friend and you should bring a wing to destract her friend.best of luck
marshy

How long have you been seeing this chick? If you just recently met her id say it was just a comfort thing and your good... she just wanted a quick out if you were crazy :p

A lot of my old chick friends get their girlfriends to text call throughout the night just in case they need an out...

Keep up the attraction and you should be pounding V momentarily.

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More correct than everything else that has been said on the page.. stop overanalysing ppl.

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What a title!

I personally find the first instance to be unlikely, although it is possible. The second is another possibility, but why would you assume that just because she isn't ready for an alone encounter, that she isn't interested? I'd say the most likely of all, is just that she was testing the waters and it was more comfortable for her to bring a friend as a safety net.

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Atleast in my university the first instance would be quite plausable, people usually have their lunch in bigger groups and the tables are open to be joined by any other friends as well, this means that if she ran into her friend, she would have had to deliberately tell her she is going out with a guy and therefore the friend couldn't join them. And knowing colleges/universities, this would likely start rumours about her seeing "this guy". Maybe too early for her to have everything publically announced?


Rye Lee, I think your safety net idea is good too, but if she had needed the friend for support, wouldn't se have picked one of the best friends, not just some random class mate?