now i know you all must be thinking i am crazy, but if i beat her to it and then just play slow game and over a month of two gain comfort and attraction so that she feels like she has to win me back/over?

or is this a terrible idea that would only work for the most experienced PUA?

its just i know i have long term game, its my short game that is lacking... or am i just off base?

input?

There's way too many variables over such a long term and you end up not having the same amount of control over where things go. Sure, you can end up with a girl that way if it was something that you set up to happen basically right off the bat and then you just held it off, but then what's the point? Why wait so long for no reason other that to play hard to get?

The only other way it's gonna happen, is if she slowly falls for you over months, in which case, that's a ton more work to do on purpose, or terrible meandering game that just takes way too long to be truly effective. Some other guy is quite possibly gonna come along in that time and interest her more than something that moves at the pace of glacial flow, then you're the one waiting. Just pull the trigger and get it done right off the bat.

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kiss her then say lets just be friends then kiss her again. Mixed signals are good!

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I love that one It would be perfect to pull when you are kissing with a girl! In a funny way of course, just to tease her.