ok i have found myself in the situation where i got the girls number which i picked in some social gathering and i cALL HER A 2 OR 3 DAYS AFTER, so w.e. we talk than out of no where the girl just stop talking to me. she will come up with an excuse like call me back in 30 min i call back like 130 min later and she dont pickup so i call again in like in 2 or 3 days and when she picks up an lets her breath put acompanied by sounds, i could feel the intrest that i had left plantedin her is GONE!, as if by some type of magic all my hard work was just turn useless , and this happens quite oftenly. im a CATCH! you know good looking, funny and confident though i used to be more confident and funny way more! and i usally do leave a good firt impression you know. i just want to know or be given an explanation of this magic! wich i dispise, source of all the loss of confiden and humor which i had. now i know im making a mistake i just dont know what.

It sounds like she flaked on you. The main reason why this happend is because you didn't build enough comfort in A2.

As for this girl, I would forget her. It doesn't sound like you can get her back, unless you can see her again and build more comfort. If you can't I would just go out and find another girl. Be sure to build more comfort though and there will be less of a chance of the girl flaking when you call her.

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