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PostPosted: Sat May 10, 2008 4:18 am 
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Hey guys, I was over my buddies house last sat night. It was 4 guys including myself and 2 girls. I only knew one of the guys there and met everyone else for the first time. However I make friends quick, so no biggie. Anyways, my bud said the HB7 was his and I could have the other HB7 but blonde so more my type. So I was playing it cool not showing much interest, however when i first met the 2 girls I introduced myself and told a little story, quite confident and a little drunk. So I notice the HB7 (blonde) checking me out, but i pretend not to notice, or act like its not a big deal. So now were playing beer pong and she’s my partner. So I start negging, and the next thing i know she’s touching me. I let her touch me for a couple of seconds, and then pull away. (just giving her a taste..lol) I have a broken jaw and it is wired shut (martial arts). I made a joke about it being a foreplay skipper, and she responds "you can still used your fingers.. right?" I laughed and gave her a cocky smile. I continued to do kino escalators (touch her, pull away). Now she drops the ball on the floor and when picking it up, she runs her hands up my leg and touches my junk. Then my dumbass says nothing and acts like nothing happens. Is that what i should have done? or said something c&f?

But continuing on with the night, I went and started talking to some of the guys. Then i went and sat on the couch and she comes and sits next to me, and says

HB7: "can I have your phone #?"
ME: "I dont know, i dont want any 3 a.m. calls" (whenever a girl asks me for my #, this is always my line)

Then I completely forgot to give her my number, and she didnt ask again.
Now she gets up and walks away. So about 20 min later I decide in going to make my move and take her upstairs. But before I can get to her, she says shes leaving and eveyone has to move cars. So as I walk to my car, i said to her (while holding her hips) "i think you pretty interesting, and next time I see you were gonna have to talk a little more"
I cant remember exactly what i said but it was something of that context.

HB7: "well you wouldn’t even give me your #"
ME: (didn’t want to seems like i was desperate to give her my # since she was leaving ) "well im sure ill cya again soon"
(as i said that i did the hair pull of the back of the neck" SHE LOVED IT

and that was that.

I always like to play hard to get, because I know from personal experience, when i get a girl too easy, it no fun and im assuming its the same for them, if not more. But did i play too hard to get? a little too cool?

So im wondering how i handled this entire situation because some day when this girl happens to be a HB10 and someone I want as a girlfriend and not a quick ONS. Should I handle it the same way..?? any help is appreciated.

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PostPosted: Sat May 10, 2008 6:30 am 
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You had her and you didn't close pretty much all i can say, you used good game for a HB10 or 9 but this is a 7 bro they are pretty much lay-ups and not often socially validated. I woulda escalated right after that pong game. There was also not much of a reason to diss her on the phone number I get what you were doing but if shes really into you whats the point of a neg.

Use negs with HB 9 or 10 only in my opnion they aren't needed for lower values you can just tease those girls some theres no point to neg and push away a girl thats already chasing you especially if your just trying to fuck her. You shoulda isolated her and slayed her after that pong game.

Anyways get your buddy to set it up again with those chicks and u can tkae her down the next time u see her. No big loss she'll still be in you, hard to get will keep her interested but in this case it extended the time you gotta waste to bang her out.


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PostPosted: Sat May 10, 2008 8:41 am 
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You shouldnt have gotten that drunk, it screws up your game and may be the reason you forgot to ask for a number, or that you couldn't think of anything to say after she gave you such an obvious IOI.

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PostPosted: Sat May 10, 2008 10:14 pm 
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Well i wasnt really that drunk. Just couldnt think of anything smooth to say. She kinda caught me off guard. lol How would you guys have handled it?

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