| If you have to ask that question, I'm afraid I have to tell you that you're not an alpha. Alpha's may ask others for their opinion and even take it into consideration, but generally don't give a flying fuck what anyone thinks about their outfit. If they're happy with it, then that's all that matters.
Man, I wear fucking PLAID. Short sleeved "dressy" plaid, long sleeved, but rolled up cotton snap button plaid in colours suited for working in the fields. I wear a brown plaid fedora. I also sometimes wear a candy necklace. I've had other guys laugh at me for that stuff and tell me it can't be worn in a nice club in NY, but fuck them, if dress code will allow it, then I'm gonna wear it. That's alpha mentality.
I'm gonna go shopping for clothes for my sister's wedding and some dress shoes for the club with a girl and if she disagrees with the stuff I like, then I'll take that into consideration and probably ask for some opinions from nearby sets and staff, but in the end, if I really like something and everyone in the mall disagrees, then I'm still gonna get it. They may not like it, but if I like it and I am happy with it, can make it work for me, then they'll accept that fact and look past it, or even think well of me for it (this is why peacocking works) because I'm so fucking confident and happy with myself, I don't need their validation. _________________ "The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch
~ Rye
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