I was thinking on what to say to this one woman that I've made some casual talk with, but since learning about this sight, I beleive she's interested based on the eye contact and signals she gives me:

" you have the most gorgeous brown eyes, I usually only notice women with blue eyes but yours really stand out"


Something along those lines, maybe even at the beginning throwing in " I don't want you to think i'm hitting on you or anything, " and then the eye comment?

Is this a start? Suggestions?
I was thinking this would show that I was attracted, but she isn't usually what I'm attracted to???

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That's pretty good. Your comment works really well. I would definitely say that to her- although I would structure it a bit differently.

" I don't want you to think i'm hitting on you or anything, but you have the most gorgeous brown eyes. I usually only notice women with blue eyes but yours really stand out."

After your original comment, I would insert a a bit more. Why are they gorgeous? Tell her something that only a perceptive person would know. "...yours really stand out. Your eyes give me the impression that you're interested in whatever I'm saying, even if it isn't important."

And, by the comment I just wrote, you are telling her that she is interested in you... a little subliminal messaging.

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This is for day game around the office for a 38 year old that has zero game. lol

When I want to know if something will work, I go out and try it. Why ask us if we think it will or not? I mean, there's only one surefire way to find out, right?

By feeling the need to ask us before you try it, you've automatically given yourself doubts and you don't wanna have any kind of negative thoughts when you approach. Go try it and have fun!
I've got a bit of constructive criticism for this post before anybody actually goes out and tries this. It is completely unnecessary and unwise to add this before any kind of direct opener, and personally I don't see the need for it in any scenario.

By telling a woman straight up that you're not trying to pick her up, then immediately follow with a compliment or any other kind of direct opener, she's going to get confused. Worse still, she'll be wondering how stupid you think she is. Or she'll think you're insecure and are trying to cover your ass for when she blows you out. It's as if you're expecting failure and telling her to go easy on you. If you weren't trying to pick her up, you wouldn't need to assure her that you're not trying to pick her up. Besides, if you were just trying to make polite conversation you wouldn't be telling her how beautiful her eyes are. For the love of PUA don't contradict yourself like this! Don't confuse her or hide your intentions because it only shows insecurity... never hide your intentions; she'll respect you for it.

If you like her, tell her so. Don't tell her you don't like her then immediately show interest because you'll more than likely get blown out. If you feel the need to tell her you aren't hitting on her, at least wait until she shows interest before you return it... that way you've made her work for it, and this is a good example of being the prize.

Dalziel is right about using the disqualifier before complimenting her, don't do it. She'll think you are insecure about hitting on her, or that you're trying to trick her. Neither is a good way to go.

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