| ok, back when I went to prom I was in a very similar situation. (this all happened before I learned about the community, but I still managed to K-close at prom, and we fooled around at an after party. I didnt f-close though) so heres the deal.
I took a blonde cheerleader (HB 8.5ish) that I had been crushing on for a while. We hung out every once in a while in a group enviorment. I would always try to flirt with her and she would respond somewhat well, but I could never take it past that. For like a year of knowing her I couldnt even kiss her.
Prom came around and I asked her to go. (by this time, I kinda had given up on her and just wanted wanted a good looking date). During prom we spent a lot of the night dancing ( i was kino escalating thru out the night. I didnt really know what it was called back then though). By the time the slow jams came around, She was giving me the puppy eyes look. I knew I could of kissed her then , but i desided not to and tease her a bit. I moved in for a kiss, but moved my head real quick towards her ear. I whispered something playful in her ear (cant remember exactly what), and I pulled her off the dance floor. I went back to the table and talked to my friend for a bit ( I was freezing her out, again without knowing so. I was just going by instict). Then I took her to on of the balconies on the boat (we had our prom in yat). There we small talked for a bit and I moved in for a kiss.
I only kissed her briefly, and I pulled away. I didnt try to kiss her again, but she was all over me. She started kissing my neck and nibbling on my ear. I acted kinda distant. I just gave her a peck and took her back inside. The whole ride back from the yat, she was trying to make out, but I kept pulling away (partly because I wanted to tease her a bit, and partly because I was nervouse and didnt want to fuck things up). By the time we got back, and we went to an after party, i couldnt get her off of me. I told her I was gonna go put my coat away in my friends room and she should come with me. Once inside the room, she started kissing my neck again and I responded this time. We started fooloing around, but once I was going fpr the f-close, i got a lot of LMR. I didnt know how to handle it back then, so we just kinda made out for a bit more and went back into the party.
so here is what I think your game plan should be:
1)At the beggening of the night just make sure shes having fun and your not boring her.
2)Once you move to the dance floor, kino escalate. (dont cop a feel though or anything like that) Just be touchy. Every time you wanna move somwere, grab her hand and lead her.
3)Once the slow songs start, make sure you dance them. While dancing keep a LOT of eye contact. I read somewhere that prolonged eye contact between a man and a woman temporaly simulate feeling of love.
4) Then, you should freeze her out for a bit (not too long)
5)then take her somewere (weather it be back to the dance floor or somewere else) and run a kiss routine.
hope this helps. Feel free to ask me any questions.
-Zeus _________________ -Stop being lame, and start being awesome.
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