okay, so I have had sex with this girl a few times, I have spent no money on her and although we have some things that are in common that would warrant a relationship, its not gonna happen for a number of reasons on my side and on hers, she is fine with that and I think she wants to maintain a casual thing for now. But I have defenetly made a good case for myself in terms of being a fuck buddy, she thinks i am funny, different, good in bed and I have really come across as a 10. right now I am doing a freeze out because i was a little to eager (but NOT needy) to hang out with her and she has not been able to with ligit reasons. She is worth keeping around but I could live without her, but it is nice to have some around you can have sex with and i do like her.

in my opinion to maintain a fuck budy one has to approach every encounter like it is your first meeting except you don't have to build attraction or comfort, but you leave out small talk completely when you are setting up the fuck time. I guess you would want to have the same approach to a fuck buddy as a MLTR, and being the complete opposite of needy. so what I am asking is how do you maintain a fuck buddy/MLTR?

So I maintained a fuck buddy for a while that was actually engaged to be married. It had its troubles because I felt like she always wanted to turn things into a relationship when I didn't and had already made it quite clear. I continued to keep things push/pull the whole time so after a while she just accepted that this was the definition of our relationship: hooking up. What I did was play into her female flattery by pretty much making things clear that when I called, we were hooking up. I'd call and keep the mood constantly sexual and would never propose a formal dating venue. But yeah, I think you have the right idea. Just keep her qualifying to you while maintaining dominance. I'd text her the following day about something sexual that happened between you guys. Or text/call when you are in the mood but can't even meet up with her to talk about something sexual. Just keep her always thinking about you with regards to sex so it defines what she thinks of you. Best of luck.