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| Fin | PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 1:57 pm | |
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Posts: 1618 | | A question for the community...
What is the best way to launch a neg. Is it better to say it in a playful manner (my preference), say it seriously then tell them your joking, or is it better to say it as seriously and no relief afterwards?
Your answers gentlemen?
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| Chino Kapone | PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 5:02 pm | |
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Posts: 914 | | Playful always wins out. I try not to be too serious at any point. Just read the situation, but its never a good idea to say " I was only kidding." That can break your cocky funny frame.
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| Fin | PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 7:13 pm | |
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I get the impression tho that some negs should be said seriously like..
"Do you want a breath mint?" It implies that the target has bad breath. "Jokingly" it means nothing, but "seriously" it lowers her SE and makes you look like a good samaritan heping her out.
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| Jacks | PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 5:29 am | |
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Location: Sydney, Australia | | i reckon it does call for the neg, but maybe also the type of game ur using. im starting out (im new) with cocky funny so i dont reckon im gonna be comfortable neging some chick without a smile or a wink.
ps on that note should winks be included after negs? should i say a neg and then wink with a "just kidding hun"
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| Rye Lee | PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 5:36 am | |
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Location: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada | | You aren't going to find anything in pickup that should always be done a certain way, hence why there is so much talk about calibration.
Like you said, if it's something like, "Want some gum?" Then you need to say it seriously, because laughing makes you look like a retard. Whereas walking up to a girl and seriously saying, "I like your hair, is it real?" without any smile or playfulness will offend her. Depends on the situation, the neg, the target of the neg, etc, etc, etc. (Yeah, there are that many etcs involved).
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| Jacks | PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 5:55 am | |
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Location: Sydney, Australia | | o god my head is about to implode with the knowledge i want to attain. i guess experience is the key? in that case ill go and try it haha
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