i have no problem aprroaching a girl but i have trouble being myself when i first meet a girl but if im with a group of people i have such good game any suggestions so i can feel comfortable around women i dont know

Hey flow, i think it's easier to communicate to a girl when within a group rather than just one on one because you both have others to divide you attention with, therefore you don't feel like you have to keep the conversation going with just the one person the whole time.

I think the reason why 1 on 1 sarging is difficult for most guys is because it's completely out of their comfort zone. I can remember feeling like it was my responsibility to keep the conv going and keep the girl entertained when doing a 1 on 1, but it aint right. Fact is you need to build rapport and hence feel at ease when in these situations, with a bit of practice it will seem natural.

Read "92 communication tricks for success in life/relationships" by Liel Lowndes. Some great stuff in there on conversational skills, comfort building.

Good luck!