OK so I was at the club where I work the other night and loads of my mates ended up coming out, I mean alot 20 or so. It was pretty quiet so I ended up getting a few snidy drinks in and just spent most my night getting paid to have a laugh with my mates! So with this in mind I decided to clock off a couple of hours early to get a few drinks in with no intention of sarging. Quite a few of my mates had buggered off by this point so there was only a couple of us. I got a couple of drinks down me and was having a good laugh.
Next I went down to another bar in the club to get a drink and have quick word with the staff down there. So i've got my drink and this 18 yr old hb 8 grabs me by the arm. I vaguely remember meeting her before but didnt even know her name, shes like "save me from this girl she keeps stroking me and shit" so I pull her aside and we start talking. Turns out she pulled my mate on new years which is how her I kinda knew her. So things move along nicely and we have some fun but I didnt run any routines on her or follow the M method properly. Still I kept a few pick up artist things in mind. I stayed in control and tried to be c & f, turned my back on her a few times and had her pulling me back. Also made sure I didnt buy her a drink that went down well I think. I end up k-closing and we go back to her place but when we get there 4 of her mates are waiting for us which threw me off a little. Eventually we got some privacy but I dunno I just didnt escalate properly so we just made out till about 7am when I went home (had work that night so had to really).
Basicly I forgot to #close (I was tired) so I was looking for some advice on what I should do next and how to proceed I came up with a few options:
A.) Turn up at her house with some wacky reason (out of the question I know on many levels but hey its an option so thought i'd throw it out there).
B.) Get her # of a mate and call or text her problem with this is as she hasnt given it to me it will probably come across a try hard and the very least put her in control. She may even think I am a stalker
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C.) Add her on facebook and work from there. This option is a little safer than the # method as facebook isnt such a big deal, people add each other as friends all the time.
D.) She frequents the club where I work alot so should I just wait for a chance encounter.
Any advice on how to precede would be great. How should I continue when I meet her again attraction/comfort what? Also I failed to work on her mates at the club which would have been helpful when we eventually ended up back at hers! Any advice on how to deal with a HB's mates? (I still kind of freeze up in bigish groups of unknown women
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So there it is my 1st success since I saw the light! This encounter was great for my confidence and my rep at work but it made me realise how little ive committed to memory of this pua material. Dont get me wrong it helped but I didnt have a clue where I was with it half the time lol. So I think a proper read of the mystery method and few routines are in order for future referance. Thanks in advance for all your help.
Oh yeh one final thing i'm not caught up on this HB just interested in seeing where it could go and OFC make up for not F-closing when I had the chance. I may well have missed the boat but you live and learn I guess.
Disclamer: I would like to point out at this point that this was by no means my 1st kiss just incase of confusion
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