Hello PUAs,

Recently I’ve got myself back from Hades to a single man’s life... I had few dates but honestly I have to admit that I’m totally out of shape.

To make it worse, I put myself in a situation which i never imagined and I’ll really need some guidance to escape from it.

Not so long ago, in a boring night in Sydney Australia... I decided to play with the App Happn (yeah I know I suck) to see what happens! Curiously I had a crush and started to talk with a cute German girl who just had left Sydney and came back to Germany. Without believing in unicorn dreams, we kept talking for a bit without much expectation... actually I think she’s a good person... until the day when I saw a flight promotion to Europe and thought “why not”...

She was really cool and picked me up at the airport and hosted me in her place. However, THE BAD SIDE OF THE STORY is that We booked in advance a trip in Europe, which we are in the middle now, but she has pushing me back... For two times when we were drinking and I tried to kiss her and she pushed me back/rejected me. In a normal life situation I would turn the FUCK OFF BUTTON on and go away, but the problem is that I still have to face 2 more weeks with her! We are having civilised moments touristing together but obviously this is not my objective and considering that I think she’s really cute/attractive and also my principles, playing the gay friend rule is not something that I would do. I have been trying to think about what to do in that situation but my brain just glitched... besides being out of PUA for a while, something like this never happened with me before, so I don’t really know what to do!!!

So, what I ask from you guys is a bit of guidance about WHAT CAN I DO IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS?! She might be playing or just not interested... I know there’s no magic formule but I would appreciate hearing from you guys (accepting the critics) What would you do?! If there’s any salvation for my ass?! Off course I’m still interested on her and fucking her would be the best output (I’m just not sure if it’s realistic at this point) // I thought about trying to get another chick in the trip, but it would be an master asshole attitude from me considering that we are sharing the accommodations and also I still have to stay one week at her place when our trip is over.

So guys I gladly and humbly would appreciate to hear your advices...

Cheers, Paul!!!!

Not sure what you can do at this point. You really shot yourself in the foot by spending way too much on her and greatly overcommitting. Did you pay for the whole trip? Not sure there's anyway you can play hard to get at this point and be believed.