i met this girl at a theme park.i talked to her for about 15-20 mins. then she left with her friend then she came back then we talked even longer then she left and finally she came back and we talked a little more and she gave me her number and her friend gave me her myspace address.i talked to her friend for about a month on and off on myspace and she ask me did i like her friend and i said what do you mean by like and she said as in would you go out with her and i said i only like her as a friend when i really do like her and want to be more than friends.i have been texting the girl for about four months and now she wants me to hang out with her and her friends at the same theme park we met at and she wants me to bring some of my friends.i have never called her only text herwhat should i do next?

I think its not too late and you can always turn around. But why did you not arrange meet? Do you live in the same town as her? And has she got an addiction to theme parks? Call her, say that you might go and try to get her to convince you go. She may be asking you to bring some friends, because she hopes you turn up with some hot friends. So take a female friend with you, she probably wont expect that.
When you meet go through the phases as you did before, but you should take things further this time.

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i havent responded yet. ill call her right now.
thanks

it went straight to her answering machine and i didnt leave a message.

we dont live in the same town

That explains why you did'nt meet her. Yeah dont answer phone messages. She must like you if she's invested this much in you. Is she the one who usually text's you first, its easy to tell their intrest by the amount of effort they put in. Just wait a short while now before making contact, you may want have a brief text chat first then tell her you're gonna call her after like 3 texts. Some girls get shy, since you dont normally talk to you on the phone.
But make sure you're also gaming other girls aswell.

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we both text first about the same amount of times,but i think i text first to her more.i havent used any negs should i use some?

someone suggested i text/say "YOU: Ya know I would invite you out sometime but I am not sure if you are cool enough to hang out with me and my friends".when you say
"Yeah dont answer phone messages"
does that mean dont leave a message?

Personally i dont like to leave answer phone messages and i know people agree with me.
Im not sure how to explain it, you could say it can come across as needy, and it also puts her in control. Then if you call again after the message it shows how much you value her, needy and you're not controlling the frame. Also on the answer machine you've got to leave some stupid message like 'hello its me, please call me...'. And that aint cool. Best just to leave it and call again another time or wait for her to call

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i dont like leaving messeges either should i use a neg? her voice on her voice mail sounds like an annoying cheer.i dont think i have used a neg yet,do i need to use one?

Only use a neg if she is a high vaule girl, and/or see's herself as having high vaule, and if she's higher vaule than you. Some say you should only neg 9 and 10's, but everybody rates them differently, and how does she rate herself, she maybe a 7 and she herself as a ten, and vice verser.
So stay away from negging some girls and just stick with the false-disqualifiers, you could still use a light neg though like 'are those nails real' or something.
Save the negs for when you meet, but be careful with them.

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thanks
what else should i do or keep doing til we meet again?

To be honest i've totally lost track of this thread, i've been replying to other guys threads too.

But here's a little bit of advice for you:

Don't be affraid to make mistakes, you'll learn just as much from mistakes as you will success. So just go with it and see what happens. Experiment sometimes, and dont put too much importance on one girl, if it doesn't go well with one, there's always another. If you just go out and have fun and not care so much what happens, it just might help your game.

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thanks.
ill let you guys know what happens