dude, i've been recommended to use a bf destroy on a girl i've known for 5 months.. we get pretty close, physically and spiritually, but i can't get her naked cos of her bf.. and maybe i come on too strong.. what are some good bf destroyers? i think he might bore her, and possibly not make her come..! it's driving me crazy!

No, it's not because of her BF. You can get her if you play your game right. Why don't you invite her over to see some movies? Sitting there in your couch you will be able to kino-escalate her. If you can't (she wont let you) I fear you to be stuck in the friends-zone.

If you can - go on. Don't push it. If she says "We should stop", simply agree with "Yeah, we should" - AND continue with what you were doing.

Should does not equal must.

Somewhere in there I would put in "I nothing more - you would make a very good friend", but I think it's too late for that since you've known each other for 5 months.

I do not know any specific ways on how to 'steal' a girl form her BF, as in routines. But I myself did pull if off simply by being more interesting and not forceing her to anything.