So Jeez where to start.

Long story-short.

- A girl liked me, But i did not make a move. I like her too.
- She is now dating another, but she still likes me, but likes the other guy too that she is dating.
- I told her I would write to her, and she said yes. But I asked if she is dating anyone, and she said yes. But I guess she would not have told me, if i did not ask. She told me, they aren't boyfriend and girlfriend, they are just in a serious relationship
- I was a bit angry with her, and I showed that attitude the week after. And while she was talking to me, because she noticed I was angry, I just left while she was talking. I'm causing the drama a bit.


The question: How should I behave around her, If i want her. She still likes me(From common sense), but can't do anything about it. Should I just leave? And what attitude should I have. Should I ignore, and not talk to her or what?

I tried searching for this answer, but could not find anything about it.

She can date 10 guys at a time if she wanted, infact many women do. It's a competition, but you have stated your needs, got angry and didn't make a move when you had the chance. Just be chill around her and grow a pair of balls. The worst she can do is cut contact or friendzone you. She can date who she likes and until two people have "the talk", she owes you nothing.

Likewise, you should date others also. If she likes you and sees that you are dating other women, then your chances of also dating her go up (You have options and won't wait patiently in line). It also addresses oneitis, which from what I am reading, you suffer from.

Personally I think you are already friendzoned, but learn from those mistakes, and improve with other women.

focus on relationship between you and her. dont mind other guys... just you and her (and many other woman )

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This is common for attractive people with options. Expect it your entire life as long as you keep fit (waist under 36 inches for a man).

This is emotionally-uncentered behavior. If you can't handle this attractive women on a limited basis, how would you ever handle dating her?

no. What's best for you is what's best to attract her. See other women, live your life, respect yourself and know your value. If she likes you, she'll come around when the guy messes up too many times (as 95% of guys do).

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Every word of this. You should stick around this forum and help guys. Good wisdom.

Like you want her.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

She said they aren't boyfriend and girlfriend, but are in a serious relationship? Dude fuck that, lol you're the backup option if shit doesn't work out between her and the current guy. Don't be the backup, go find other women.

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These hos ain't loyal

I don't really get into any boyfriend or girlfriend mindset these days. Everyone wants to be her boyfriend but being her lover is a thin line. Behave like a single man would. Date other women and let this girl fall out with the other guy. When this happens, you make her wait. Because you are a man who is about his needs and wants and you weren't waiting for their serious relationship to end.


This reminds me of the other day when a 19 year old was postponing our meet up a third time that day. I postponed the first time and she postponed the second time. Then she tried to postpone again. I told her that I am going out for a drink (I called up another girl after her third attempt) and that we can reschedule. Next thing you know her "hair appointment" got cut short and she was "free" earlier now.


I still went with the girl I called up. I don't play that. Even if this girl had a nice body on her. Neither should you.

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If it's true love, then only one must be the real person she should go with. It's okay if she only likes you and also likes another guy. I even have many guys I like, but when it comes to true love, that's different.