Hey so it seems like I am pretty decent at parts of my game, up to the K close. But when I get there, even when I KNOW that she will kiss me back, I get really nervous, which fucks up my game, and makes her feel uncomfortable. I wanna punch through this barrier that I am making and I keep telling myself things like "just do it" or "man up" etc. but its not really helping. I know routines, mindsets, theory all that shit, and I know exactly what to do, but when the long awaited moment to act appears, I freeze up, forget, or get super shaky.

Does anyone have any experience similar to this where they conquered this plateu? or any tips? I need to get this part of my game handled, it would give me a shitload more confidence and I could start working on a full close, rather than just being stuck on the fucking kiss.

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Sttartter

Dude, there is no point in getting super shaky or nervous, it's kissing !

If you can tell she wants to, you can also tell that she is nervous about it, well when you kiss someone you close your eyes, when you close them just imagine that no one is there, this should help out, remember YOU are THE MAN, you decide what to do, it's all down to you to kiss close her, and when you are kiss closing her you will feel even more like THE MAN when you are doing it

P.S. When was the last time you kissed a girl ? Because the longer you wait, the more nervous you can become

Hope this helps,

Peace,

Troyden

Look for the IOI's, go for the kiss !
It's only a game !

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Run Silent, Run Deep.

do you know the feeling, when you hear music that gives you confidence and makes you think that you are on top of the world.
Well try and think of yourself as on top of the world, that should give you the confidence you need to k-close her, it usually works for me

good luck

@Troyden
Thanks man some really helpful stuff, and I haven't kissed a girl since my ex girlfriend (total bitch now) and that might be why this is ending up to be such a huge thing for me. I will fer sure imagine that when I close my eyes.

@Valdemar1
good idea! as a suppliment to Troyden's idea of remembering that I AM THE MAN, aha, I will definitely have Eminem's "Lose Yourself" in the back of my mind.

Thanks alot guys, this really helped, and I will try to use this gold as often as is possible.

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Sttartter

if you are already standing close and you've had some playful interaction, then you could breath on her neck and if she keeps her head back you can kiss her neck.. and then she will let you know if she wants you to kiss her by putting her head back so you can kiss her.