Hey I was in this university party in Germany today, it is a TU technical university it is like 90 guys per girl in the parties so this little HB8 is dancing with her female friend which is with a dude. Staying like 2 steps from there there is an AFC which is friend of the dude so it is a sort of double date shit. I pass by the girl taps my arm very quickly and I think oki no problem I got a set. I´m with my friends so I dance a bit more with them and turn for her, I increase kino and she starts a kind of lap dance she rubs her boobs on me going from the knee almost passing by my bals and so on. Still I was not paying great attention on her cause I was looking for a friend of mine:? I was dancing and touching her in the back from the middle of the back until the waist. She got a bit more excited and put her hands inside of my shirt, and starts to rub my abdomen (which is composed by a 4 pack thanks to many abdominals :p) she gets excited looks up and I kiss her. In this moment the dude and the AFC come and just pull her from me. As I didn´t want to make a tug of war of the girl I let her go and asked before releasing her what a damm was that. I got no answer. Still by some reason she gave no opening for the afc and the dude which was with the other girl came by "in rescue" they sort of isolated her I couldn´t get a window to talk to her, I resumed to dance with my friends. When they freed her in about 15 mins I tried to talk with her, she looked at me and simply said hey I dont want to talk with you. As I tried to be no wussy I tried to simply talk and see if I get some decent answer, I got one or 2 small smiles and than she locked in again with the I dont wanna talk shit.
I think I followed the book, oki maybe I failed in isolation but wtf why would the girl just refuse to give me a dam word? BTW I hate these german chicks each day more and more.

you kissed her way too early bro.

you followed everything fine, expect the isolation part. if it was the exact same scenario minus her friends she wouldda totally done it. by kissing you so early it would make her seem like a slut to her friends, so she backed off.....the whole point of isolation is so a girl can do things that normally society would call "slutty".

isolation is what screwed you up this time....make sure her friends and shit aren't with her or else she will definitely not mess around with you at all.

next time try to slowly move the girl away from her friends sight, then wait a bit longer and move your head really close to her while you're dancing and say "I'm trying really hard not to kiss you right now." if the chick says basically anything besides "don't", kiss her (most of the time they'll ask "why", so just kiss them after they say that too)


other than that, nice sarge bro

Where I come from is no big deal to kiss girls in party, here in Germany this girls are full of I dont I cant. Yep I fucked up in a very basic step STILL isolating there hm lets say would not be easy move her away anyway the dudes would have jumped in. fortunately in 2 weeks Im out of this shit Back to civilization.

I kind of understand your situation especially since I am studying at a TU in Germany. Where ever you go you nearly see more guys than girls especially at university parties. There has been a published study on girl/boy behavior in a room with more people from the opposite sex and the results are that boys are loving those parties but girls get frightened.

So I would agree to the posts before that you pushed too fast, if you could not isolate her you could at least have tried to win over the whole group and not only that one girl.

Oki so you know how screwed it is, the bottom point is as I said they were sort of double dating. I couldn´t not win over a double date, no mater how much social proof you can present you cant get someones pointed girl and rely on social proof. I fight against the idiom, against the place and so on. I only get upset cause the dude pulled her like she was a dog, and after, the AFC simply dumped her. And she says me hey go away. This is fucking dumb, I like my teeth and I don´t wanna enter into a dumb discussion with drunk people (you know how this losers drink) for a girl I barely know into a city Im leaving in 2 weeks. Point is she was with the hands inside my shirt, and rubbing against me, you know from your knee to your neck once she stopped in from of me and smiled I got the perfect shot for the kiss sorry couldn´t ignore that. Still I think it is also much more about this retarded people from small cities.
About the isolation... Kinda hard, no corners and so on :p You don´t have a place where other people are kissing and so on germany is screwed up bros.