Two chicks on the same athletic team in the same school have been on the backburner long enough and I want my way with them. To keep it short chick A wants the poll bad, and chick B would be a great relationship. I kno I can have either but I want both. Discussing it with friends, I have two options I am willing to do:

1) Keep A on the backburner, see where it goes with B. I'm sure I'd have a great time but clearly nothing lasts forever, and then A will probably still be there when my relationship with B ends.

2) F-close A ASAP, then have a relationship with B.

The truth is if I had to have only one it would be B.
But If I were to go route 2, my question is this:

How can you keep a girl quiet about having sex with you without making her think you're ashamed or embarassed of her? How can you really make her not tell anyone?

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Why should she have to stay quiet? Hell, if a girl thinks you're great in bed, it's kind of an automatic opening for other girls, if you're not "with" that girl. The others want to see how you really are then too.

I'd agree go with option 2...I see 1 back firing on you because Girl A will prob find someone else to bang while your spending time in a serious relationship, or worse yet may fall into a relationship herself

If you:

1) Make the girl beleive that she wanted to sleep with you and it was her choice, then she will def not cast anything negative about you.

2) Assuming you dont piss girl A off she will prob tell every 1 that you are great in bed (even if your not, bc she cant bad mouth u, it was her choice...and it makes her look like she made a good choice, and didnt just slut it out with you) and then you'll prob be in with even more then chick A/B.

Just my opinion, and im new so maybe im wrong. Let us know what you decide, and how it goes.

Long story short, I would be embarassed about it if it were public. Some friends would disapprove and whethere I like it or not I definatly care what they think.

I'm surprised no one gave me the don't shit where you eat spiel yet.

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Ok, first of all, why care what your friends think? If they are really your friends, I would think they'd be congratulating you on something that apparently they can't do themselves. Unless these friends are the holy rollers that judge everyone else even though they are filthy as shit themselves.

For another thing, when you are GOOD sexually with just one girl, other girls WILL find out, whether you WANT it to spread or not. Deal with it or don't have sex. Or, suck at sex, in which other girls will still find out and you just won't get any more pussy, lol.

So, accept the fact that word will spread, because it will, or don't have sex.

You can have both

But being that your even asking us this question you don't know how that can be done. The questions is can u keep your mouth shut about the whole deal and not get yourself caught.

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I believe I can keep my mouth shut.
Can someone address this for me. Isn't it like negative social proof of some sort if chick A is younger? I personally look down on my friends, though I don't let them know it, when they're with a younger chick. I think the age is an advantage and I'm often convinced they could never get them if they were the same age. That just might have told me something about myself right there... I need a shrink damnit.

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to give yerself the best chance you should go for the one with the most self esteem first. . . if you dont its more likeley the "proud" one will not allow herself to get sloppy seconds.

That's why I'd go with B first. If I could only have one, it would be B.

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Banging younger girls is fine. When I was in HS all the girls in my grade were all dating 20-22 yr olds. It makes them feel mature and cool. When in reality they're still young and unexperienced. You dont wanna b popping any cherries cuz thats no fun. Young girls don't have much experience and don't know crap about being good in bed. But if you are going to do something like option A, teach her well. I look at it as public service, if I teach that hot 17 yr old how to do dirty things it not only benefits me but all the other guys after me. So in a sense by banging that younger girl yur making the world a better place. AND when besides HS are you gonna be able to fuck hot 16 yr olds? Get on it my friend.

Kissed (not k-closed...it makes it sound like an accomplishment) chick b last night. I felt nothing, and it showed. Might have been the worst kissing I've done.

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Have both at the same time!
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