What do I do when a girl won't commit/ go anywhere?



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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 1:00 am 
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This has happened to me with three or four different girls I go to college with.

Everything seems to be going good...I playfully tease the girls/neg them, dhv, and run canned game on the girls. I make sure to incorporate push/pull and try to get them chasing after me. But whenever I ask them to do something or go somewhere with me, they are usually really apprehensive and wont go.

One girl told me she didnt want to go anywhere because she was afriad something might happen. Another told me that she cant go anywhere with me and cant really explain why but just that I should leave it at that. A third girl asked if it was just going to be me or her and then when I confirmed that she kinda danced around the question and said she couldnt go.

They wont seem to commit to doing anything ever, and it is hard for me because I can never isolate the girl.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 1:21 am 
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Couple of things,

1. Don't put so much pressure on the girls. Make the first hangout a very loose situation that doesn't feel like a date commitment. Say something like, I'm dropping by this party at XXXX, have your shoes on by 9 if you want to go. In other words make it seem like she's GETTING to come hangout with you, you're letting her see a piece of your world, and it's not some one on one date thing.

2. It's possible that you're picking the wrong girls, but then again Style always says 'it's always your fault.'


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 06, 2007 11:10 pm 
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sometimes it just happens like that. i had a really good set last week with an HB8.5 and no so HB4.2. i stacked well and the 8.5 was actually kinoing me at one point so i suggested that we all go back to the vip. she said that she was there with a few other friends so i said bring them too and ill get my friends and we all will just hang out. at this point she just shut me down completely so i was like "well if you change your mind ill be over there with my friends" so i walked away and went on to another set. thats just the breaks of the game sometimes.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 12:00 am 
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Another good one girls like this who are semi-interested like to do is tell you to "call them that day." Which is bullshit. They'll set something up in advance with other people. I'm sure they've already told you about stuff they've done on the weekend. How many of those things do you think got set up at the last minute.

Try not to take offense, but it sounds like they still think you're an AFC. They'll only hang out with you as a last resort. Hey, I've been there, and am still there to some extent. I believe you when you say that you've put up some strong game on them, but I think your problem may be that your personality isn't consistent. That you need to internalize the game.

I posted a link to this blog entry earlier today, but I want to make sure you in particular read this blog post by mPUA David Wygant:
Are You An Actor Or A Person?

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