I've been getting my feet wet with approaching and dating some girls after being in LTRs for years. I've noticed that one of my big problems is I come out confident and calibrated on first/second dates, then I begin to not know how to pace it.

Just had a 2nd date w/this hb8 I met online who is 30 (looks about 22). Based on her emails and our interactions in person, there has been no question in my mind that she's interested. e.g. she seems nervous around me, and asks questions about how many other girls I’m dating. Yet I was unable to k-close on the 2nd date. She gave me a hug and a peck on the neck as we said goodbye, and I was left scratching my head. Poor job cave manning it on my part, but I got the vibe that she didn’t want our first kiss to be in the freezing cold, in public. Anyway, I’m curious how you guys would proceed after this experience. Feel like I’m getting dumber by the day in cases like this.

Sounds like she is looking for a one girl guy. If that's who you wanna be then go for it.

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haha dude... what girl isnt looking for a "one girl guy"??? seriously...

i know so many sluts that absolutely crave the cock but i guarentee deep down inside they still want a guy who ONLY wants to spend the rest of his life with her...


as for advice on this...
I dont understand what you mean by "pace it"???
just go with the flow? :S

anyway as for what you should do with this woman... you may have fucked it up already by going on 2 DATES with her and NOT kissing her lol... is there any sexual tension between you 2? are you kino plowing constantly on your "dates"
i'd also steer away from calling these get togethers "dates" unless... you have slept with her...
the word "date" has this fucked up hidden meaning behind i feel... its like if you ask a girl on a date before you've slept with her... there is sooooo much fucking tension while you 2 are together on this so called "date" that i feel that everything because kinda awkward? so to counter this... i dont call these things "dates" and i dont take them to the typical "date" places lol... i.e movies, fancy resturaunt etc...
tell them you're going bowling and that they should come because the last time you went it was crazy because you got sooooo pissed that you threw the bowling ball into the roof and it was fucking hilarious... (this is what i use lol... it is true by the way haha)
that way THEY dont feel awkward and YOU dont feel awkward on your little get together... and then you'd kino plow like a fucking mad cunt while you're with her...

and then when you take her back to your house invite her up because you "have this really cool video" to show her... and then keep push pulling from there...
i.e "sorry you cant stay tonight because i have to get up early and i dont want you keeping me up all night " THIS IS PUSHING... while saying this you're kino'ing her which is PULLING! constantly do any kind of push pull method so she is feeling a hugeeeee range of emotions... and then BAM if you're good enough you've just sealed the deal lol...

i have no fucking idea if this will help you but i just felt i wanted to write something lol... enjoy g-unit!

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