Caution : Long Story

Hi everyone this is my first post here

I've really went around the forum for several month before making the account but no real material however

I'm 16 ,probs by far the only Egyptian here so my culture is diffrent but i find my way though

i met this girl in class about 2 weeks ago , she's like a 7 so first time i came in i started talking to her in class and almost got us both kicked out and seriously to be honest she's shown alot of IOIs ,only problem is i am fasting at morning and that time i tend to be out of sync with my life as if i am on weed ,back on track 2day i responded to her and was pretty good at DHV and she kept asking me to attend a party organized by the school at night and based on that i did attend ,after making some excuse that i maybe breaking my fast at someone else's and school doesn't show any sort of motivation and she started asking me to come n' shit but my weedy mood prevented me from making a #close so i just attended then when the DJ started i caught her between the crowds got her aside and started talking at this pt some friend was near (female) she old me just a second and started talking to her i was a bit distant so if i stayed my value would decrease so i left as soon as the convo took longer than short
but then i was observing her ,she didn't even look for me she started moving around and getting into the crowds again
same scenario 3 or 4 times except the others hi her not vice versa

i know about 3 trials makes me needy but why is this happening
also when the party was over some girl showed and we did some overboard touching ,she was behind me then ,will this decrease my state of neediness in her mind

for 2 weeks till i start showing some interest ,could i have turned her off by then ,i usually am tired in the morning and have no concentration at all
what she had done was VERY obvious iois like laughing at shit i say at class for no apparent reason and the eyeing part (i am not handsome i am just fine ,but my esteem is good) stuff like that

sometimes it depends on the girl, to be honest. i know of two specific examples from my school, who differ completely.

the first is my ex-girlfriend. if she likes you, she will show it. she's open to approaches and for the most part won't pretend like she doesn't know you.

i'm playing around with the second example- she is incredibly fine-looking but lacks self confidence. she avoids being without friends and has a hard time talking to me. so she just tries to pretend like she doesn't like me (but she does-- she overcompensates with me. over ignores, if you will.)

anyways, there are two extremes for you. i don't know if you can tell exactly with this girl, but they don't all behave exactly the same. if you aren't sure what to do in one case, practice practice practice. every girl is a little different but they are similar enough that you should be able to see some patterns. just remember to not rely on plans, but on your ability to improvise. i used to think of stuff i would say to a girl way in advance, and it always fell through because things never worked out the way i thought they would. so you NEED to be confident enough to approach any situation without preparation.

i'm still working on that.

don't get stuck in the place where you think you have to follow a particular path to get a girl. that's where i used to always fail--i thought i needed to know what to say exactly. all you need is to know the patterns and be able to adapt.

that's all i can say. i hope there are other people who can be more specific. i don't really understand your culture exactly, like how far you can go within your religion. good luck with the girl.

Concerning the our culture part ,its quiet different
as for religion ,unfortunately there are some points that i maybe crossing ,but i don't feel any guilt bout it

and yeah from what i am reading around the forum ,don't be specific about a routine ,but make it flexible ,like u have headlines and improvised content that are different depending on the situation ,our holy month of Ramadan will be over soon so my weedy mood will go away by then
Will try what u said and keep u guys posted
i am heading for my IGCSE exams so my internet usage is limited so it might take a while
-AbdouRetro

well my exams are over
and that girl i think was kinda defective
sumtin i didn't wanna talk to in the first place ,so eventually i lost interest
now i'm with this girl that is soo my type ,pretty similar in everything
i do love her ,but i stole her from some guy i thought wasn't good enough for her so she broke up with him for me
'n i'm happy now
i owe her to the game
to this community
to people like mystery,gunwitch,tynan,..
who made material and tips that made me standout to her from everybody