I'm great at meeting women, fantastic at conversation, i've gotten many numbers in my lifetime but the one thing i struggle with IMMENSELY is getting the Day 1. Like as soon as it comes to figuring out the date it either ends in disaster or it just plain doesn't work. I've had girls that say yes to a date but when it comes to specifics they are so indecisive it drives me nuts. I do what every guy here suggests to do, i mean its just plain common sense for a guy to pick the time and place but i always end up getting a "maybe" or "i'll have to check my schedule" or a "sure" and then she changes her mind. What am i doing wrong here? So far i havent found anyone else with difficulty in this, and i'm starting to think i'm just not grasping an essential concept or something... and that really ticks off the introspective know-it-all in me. I can't stand when i dont have something figured out and i will bitchslap chuck norris if thats what it takes to get there.

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Hmm, never had that problem personally. Maybe try suggestion the next meet earlier, I always felt when you suggest at that moment when you are saying goodbye it seems a bit desperate and needy. If I havnt set up the next meeting by the time shes leaving Id rather just take a number and call her another day. A trick I often use is to game a girl for a bit, suggest a second meet on another day then leave her alone for 10-20 minutes while I chill with my friends. This usually seems to do the trick. But experiment, see what works for you.

ah, so suggest another day, tell her "i gotta go do this, tell me your answer when i get back" and then let it stir around in her head until she finally just says yes? seems a bit hit and miss depending on whether she thinks about how much she wants to go or all the things shes nervous of IF she goes but i'll give it a shot. i get a lot of "i'll have to check my schedule" and then they seem to have forgotten all about it by the next time we talk. whats up with that?