I met this girl at a mutual friends birthday, she is a 10 hands down and could have any guy no problem, but dosnt. We talk on FB and i flirt a bit with hur, we were getting on great, but she is really insecure and does not show any sighn of a attraction at all towards me, i mean any!

Iv tried push pull, attraction material and she just dosnt get it.

But through the friend we both know it turns out she thinks the girl likes me. untill she found out my age. She has a big issue with age and she didnt realise how young i was, and she has a big thing about being with older guys, she is 21 and i am 19.

We are going to my flat mates 21st bday a week on sat and she is giving me a lift there and back, any advice on where i ?

Peace

LancePUA

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Hi bro wondering what this girls outlook on life is SPAM and if u could use this to ur advantage. She enjoying life right now ? does she have a possitive or negative attitude ? ect

check out adam lyons neg attraction vid at might help but be carefull. Whats making this girl insecure ? i'd find that out first, the issue with age on the other hand isn't that big of a deal in my experience, find out why older guys appeal to her more than younger ones is it maturity or having more lifetime experiences ? ect

Dude 2 years age diff is nothing really but she prolly has a mind set of a 25 year old so maybe reinforcing to her that ur acctully more mature than ur age shows would help get ur foot in the door.

You have the perfect chance on sat to test this, is she staying at the party with u or coming back to pick u up ? You MUST be the only thing she thinks about when she drops u off or if she stays use whatever skills u can to find out the above n play with that.

Hope this helps bro

Later

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For a girl to be insecure when she is that pretty it means that perhaps she had a bad experience in the past. She doesnt show any attraction towards you because there is something there that is a deal breaker for her and I dont think it has too much to do with your age. You have to find out what is the massive deal breaker. That's all. A girl is usually interested in an older guy for four main reasons:
1) more mature attitude
2) more potential to be a husband sooner than the younger guy.
3) giving her more of a safety feeling
4) is experienced and knows what a woman wants I think the best advice I can give you is to act mature. I dont know about the attraction part but I think being mature will add points.

I think the insecurity leads back to hur dad, i think hes was quite abussive to hur, mum and brother and this has completely knocked hur confidence, i think im goging to be staying in the same house as hur after the party, with maby another 20 folk so it gives me no excuse. Great advice guys thanks very much

Peace

LancePUA

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After reviewing your post bro i'd give the neg attraction method a miss sounds like she's too insecure for that play.

What i would play on is that family and friends are the most importaint things to you and keep your game solid the whole night.

Go get her bro

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