Hey,

I have a massive sticking point that I hope you guys can help me out with ! I call it a sticking point, but my particular sticking point is one particular girl that I cannot seem to get anywhere with and its annoying the hell out of me.

Before I start, I do want to stress that I do not have a case of one-itis, although I am sure it may appear this way. I go out and approach other women as much as possible (being a newbie to this I am approaching as much as my confidence will physically allow), but there is this one girl who I am having trouble getting interested. I met her before I was aware of the game and this community and when I was, not afraid to admit it, a massive AFC. The ultimate definition of an AFC to be more precise. I had little to no game and when I finally bucked up the courage to approach her and start a conversation, it was stilted and reeked of a massive lack of confidence.

Now having been trying to learn all there is to learn about the game and new techniques to talking to women I have these new skills in my arsenal. How do I put these new skills across to her without coming across as completely different to the guy she first met ? Or, is that exactly how I want to come across ?

Advice please guys would be gratefully accepted !

Peace x

Well I would say that you should slowly introduce your new skills into your interactions with her and make her think that she just didn't see this side of you before. Could make her more intrigued and curious about you and we all know that increases attraction

You can do it either ways. But do it the one you feel more comfortable in.

After all its about showing yourself to her. Don't try to act like you have this new skill set, rather behave like you are still the same person as you were then, perhaps she missed the parts she is seeing now.

You see the difference? i dont want her to "think" that you've changed. i want her to "feel" that she missed something! that would make her want to know you better, if u ring the attraction side of her brain

Totally worked - gradually introduced my new skills over a couple of meets and now have number closed with her asking repeatedly to call her ! This community works and only when people reply to posts.

Cheers guys,

Peace x