Unanswered topics | Active topics |
New posts | Your posts
Forum rules
A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.
It is
NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.
A Sticking Point is:
Quote:
I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
Quote:
I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.
| Author | Message |
| Fragnance | PostPosted: Tue Oct 05, 2010 2:40 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Fri Aug 27, 2010 12:31 am Posts: 58 | | Hey guys a bit of sticky point here, please tell me what you think and how should I go about it
The problem is that I don't get enough time to game a girl during whatever time I get to game her. Things occur that make either her to go somewhere or I have to go somewhere. the important point is the conversation doesnt end but is left unfinished. Now the conversation can be resumed but the next time i see the very same girl is after a real long time, like say a week. this is true and it almost took me a year to notice this. the stats date back to even before i heard about seduction community.
the reason why it takes so much time to see her again is because we either don't have same classes or not the same bus route, or some reason which cannot be overwritten to be made into advantage.
so whenever i meet her again, i am filled with so much awkwardness, weirdness and thoughts such as "does she remember me?" and similar thoughts, that I end up ignoring her, and if suppose i get an eye contact in another very short passing by moment, i am bursting with awkwardness. i feel like a creepy stalker
So, what is wrong here? I read that I shouldn't continue the previous conversation, because two reasons, one I dont think she remembers it, second even if she does, it might appear needy to continue that conversation.
or do I again start from scratch hoping that she remembers me?
all this isn't for one particular chick, but for every chick i meet. its college after all, everyone is busy in their own thing..
and how to go about to start talking to a girl who i ignored the whole year? lol kinda funny, but eh, if i knew what i was going into, i wouldnt have probably done it in the first place.
|
|
| Top |
|
 |
| Shyler | PostPosted: Tue Oct 05, 2010 3:56 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Mon May 24, 2010 2:38 pm Posts: 520 | | You got 2 problems. I'll try to help you with both of them.
First of all, your major problem is confidence. It's not that big deal or awkward to talk to people. Just small talk with them for a minute, even when you've met them a week ago. Your frame should be: I can't see why anyone wouldn't talk with me. And don't worry about awkwardness. If you think it's not awkward, you'll react like it's not awkward, it won't be awkward.
Secondly, simply, take less time to game someone. Just try to build some attraction, build rapport, kino a lot to build sexual tension, kiss her if you feel there is enough sexual tension, and if not, than just ask her phone number, and move on to the next girl, and try to set a date with her. On a date you will have enough time to game her. _________________ You WANT to make a change.
You CAN make a change.
You WILL make a change.
Ambitious to be succesfull => Shyler
|
|
| Top |
|
 |
| Fragnance | PostPosted: Tue Oct 05, 2010 11:40 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Fri Aug 27, 2010 12:31 am Posts: 58 | | Yo man yo.
Confidence is the problem. I spent some two years of my life almost like in a prison, underestimating myself, cursing myself and all this thinking has made me what I am now. So I am onto re-programming all that stuff. Taking some time but thats no problem, in fact the amazing thing is, you can chose to program anything and everything.
For your second part, I think my weak point is building rapport. Any suggestions on how to make good rapport with chicks which is instant?
But I still don't understand - please explain me the female psyche here, say I have a so-so rapport, what will be her thinking when I see her next time like after a week?
|
|
| Top |
|
 |
|
|
You cannot post new topics in this forum You cannot reply to topics in this forum You cannot edit your posts in this forum You cannot delete your posts in this forum You cannot post attachments in this forum
|
