so i went out last thursday and got absolutely shit faced and had a great night. at the time i sarged a girl that i thought was attractive got her number and k closed. i thought this was great at the time but now ive realised that shes well unattractive and a little on the ... big side ?

she messaged me on fb and i thought why not try this a oppurtunity to use some game as im new to the community. this is where it gets bad , she wont stop phoning and emailing me.

she wants to meet up but i have no interest in her at all and im too nice to just say " no " cause i think that will fuck with her and shes actually well alright.

any ideas on letting her dwn easily would be appreciated.

as always thank you in advance

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As a response to my post I'm replying to one of yours, hope this helps.
This one is tough because rejecting someone who is, in all actuality, a good person is not easy to do. There are three ways I know of to do this, the nice way, the dick way, and the coward way.
The nice way way is to just be straightforward with her. Tell her that you were drunk and wasn't thinking clearly and suggest y'all remain friends, from there it's easy to fade off just reduce the amount you talk to her each day and just ignore any text or email that relates to dating or interest in her. Eventually you get to the point to where you don't talk to her anymore and she should get the hint. I've done this many times to girls I become unattracted too but don't want to let down too much.
The dick way would be to just tell her you were drunk and didn't know what you were doing, and that you had no intention of picking her up. Tell her it was a mistake on your part and then leave her alone, don't reply to any texts or messages she sends you. I've used this one for girls who were stubborn and didn't get the word no, it gets your point across and they understand why you're not talking to them anymore.
The coward way would be to change your number and block her emails, I have only done this a few times when girls become overly obsessive and it becomes a little scary to know they exist.
I hope this helped man, good luck.

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