So I'll try and break it down without too many annoying details. Met this girl through friends and we ended up meeting me up. She came to my nice loft in downtown I made stellar drinks then we hit up the cool bar nearby then she accepted invite to come back. We made out for awhile but she wouldn't let it go further, though she was getting pretty hot and heavy. I assumed she just didn't wanna go that fast. So I had a concert fest I went to and she said a few times "hit me up when you get back". And after I got back I texted it was awesome and she said she was wished she could have gone and to call her some time.

So I hit her up and say when are you free, and she said all week. So I texted yesterday lets chill tonight. No reply for hours then she says she just booked dinner plans. I'm thinking ok wtf but whatever.

So I tell her I'm goin out with friends if she wants to meet up after. She did text but I decided to ignore it just to keep things in my control a little more.

So today I text and say hey you free tonight? No reply. Probably shouldn't have but i called like 5 hours later just to make sure, left a message to hit me up and haven't heard a thing.


I just don't get why she would lead on so much up to this point then get flaky, any ideas?

still no text all day today but im over it so it's cool. Just surprised she handled it like that making it seem like she wanted to hang. Why not just flake after I got back and not reply to those texts? totally weird. ANy thoughts?

Did i post this in the wrong section or something? :-/

seriously no replies at all? Not sure what to make of this forum then. But I sure get plenty of emails trying to sell me shit so good job there