Once I'm feeling comfortable I can be a nice flirt, I've always have been but never really used it due to various reasons. So now that I'm into the game for real this flirty side of me is starting to show in my natural way of behaving. This is a GOOD thing, it makes me feel happier and more confident around women.

Strange thing is though that I didn't expect it to have THIS much impact. I'm working as a nurse at the ER so it's an environment with plenty of women. I've been working there for over a year now and have build good rapport with most of my co-workers. The last few weeks I have been giving off a very good vibe and it's drawing doctors and nurses to me. I'm having great fun with all the attention!

So here's my sticky point. There's one HB9 assistant that I'ld like to isolate somewhere outside work. There's one HB8 nurse that I've liked since I started working there and is showing more and more interest in me. Another HB8 that I've always suspected of having some sort of feelings for me and yet another HB8 that's in a relationship but now suddenly takes interest in me.

I'm juggling here! I don't know how to proceed. The assistant I might be able to keep seperate as she's bound to be leaving for another internship somewhere else. But the three nurses...? I can't afford messing up because we're all working together.

To make things worse (or better ) I was talking to one about going on a city trip to NYC. She suggested taking one of the others with me. I said I'ld like the third to come as well (as a guide because she knows the city). Before I knew it both nurses showed interest in my plan. Today we were all working together and the first nurse got invited somehow as well. We were talking about it and we even told our boss I would take all the single girls from the department (6) with me on a citytrip to NYC. It's getting out of control here!

So my questions are
- Do I try to isolate one and go to NYC with her?
- Do I try to keep it with the original two singles?
- Do I take the third (occupied but showing interest) as well?
- Do I actually go through with this? If I start getting this organized I might come off as needy and they might back out leaving me with lower value.
- And HOW do I get this organized??

My questions isn't
- Do I get involved with co-workers because it's only getting me into trouble?



Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Here's how you organize it.

If you do take two or more they will first vie for your attention desperately trying to get you. I suspect this is happening now. Eventually if you don't pick they'll think "sour grapes" i.e you aren't as good as they thought you out to be, they'll do it just to save face and not feel rejected. So enjoy all three be a gentleman and pick the girl that suits you best.

You will not be able to game three girls that are in contact with each other everyday and expect more than casual sex. Unless you have devastatingly strong game. It will eventually turn into the scenario I just described.

Another option is what I do. I game lots of girls, get them attracted, date, then make them my orbiters (push them just far enough not to become your girlfriend but close enough for intimacy every once in a while). It provides excellent social proof and you will have so many options just waiting for you when you're ready.

The juggling becomes a lot easier, just don't let your orbiters get too far away from you or they'll resent you and you probably will not be able to bring them close again. And be careful when orbiting girls that are too close together. They might collide, but even if they do it will end up like the scenario I described in my third paragraph.