Hey Everyone.....I can't get passed the anxiety when I get to the nmber close....It's weird because most people have approach anxiety, I have number close anxiety...I run solid game...but this problem is seriously bringing me grief....any suggestions...????

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Hey mate
Don't no if this helps but I use to have the same problem.. Walked away from so many sets with aws game but no numbers cause I just hit a brick wall.. What I tried was automatically assume she had my number which saved me from asking and therefore resulted in her askin for mine... Example: I would b negin this set bout her crap dancein then tell her if she wants to head out and b shown how to dance txt me.. So far 9/10 response have been pos, I usually get "and how am I gonna do that" well u gonna have to ask me for my number. Stuff like that, I found doin that help with my anxiety and it also put the me in a hv cause they were asking me for my number.




Eventualy doin that I learnt to overcome the anxiety and now I can go about gettin numbers easy.. Hope it helps, let us know how u go with it and to anyone else

do u ask her for her number?

dont if u do.. act as if she is going to give u her number..

how do u do this?

do it the Alex Coulson way..

how does he do it?

when he is about to close, he takes his cell out, asks the girl, "how do i spell ur name" .. type her name, give her ur phone n then say, "well enter ur digits n i'll sms ya the party details"

remember that the conversation in above ends in a case where u tell her about ur party n why she should absolutely must come.. if it is some else that u've reached with ur conversation, just edit the sms line by "well enter ur digits and i'll sms ya the details (about whatever u told her is amazing)"..

hope this helps..
suggestion dont say number, say digits, might help u go around ur anxiety, plus its more comfortable..

Thanks alot to both of you guys for the advice....I am gonna try both options this weekend and see what I can do with these techniques, I will post my results next week....I need to get this little issue worked out....lol....My Wing figures it might be fear of getting shot down, seeing it rarely happens with opening....The rejection factor is higher within the number close for me.......either way I gotta soldier throgh...I am missing out on HB 9's and 10's

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I live in my reality and your a guest....

Just breathe.

Don't say a word.

Take out your phone.

Hand it to her

Smile.

If she's intelligent, she'll know what to do.

Most women are not, and she'll say "Why something something something"

Rely on the moment and your entire interaction with her to find the answer.

If you know yourself thru and thru, the answer will bubble up to your conciousness and right out of your mouth.

Be brave.