hello all PUAs.

i have a problem that needs fixing, need some real help here. now here goes:

i liked this girl when i was afc. lets just call her A.

A and i were acquaintances for years. We knew who each other was, but were nvr really friends. just the kind of people you see and smile at just because you know the other person. in other words, no hard feelings.

i, mr AFC, fell in love, and tried chasing her. afc stammers and was real nervous when he tried to "game" her. he failed of course and had to forcefully number close. he asks her out a few days later which results in a resounding "No".

Fast forward four months later, afc dude becomes much better with girls and has had his fun. he sees this girl regularly again recently and has made small talk with her. however, he also realises that A has blocked him off msn and twitter since 4 months ago. he wants to talk to her again, get her to trust him (she is rs material, no rush at all).

what should he do?

he is meeting her this sat, albeit in a religious meeting. he knows the people there and has many friends there. should he confirm social value by talking and having lots of fun with the people after the meeting first? or should he isolate her first? or what would you guys recommend?

he is thinking of a gift. should he?

should he game her, make her comfortbake, with kino and stuff like that, build up comfort and attraction till shes laughing and nice, then bring up, just for a short minute or so, the topic of her blocking me off? should he apologise or anything during that part?

what should he do?

help this guy get his mojo back with this girl. thank you guys so much in advance. cheers.

Hey dude,

i) NO GIFTS
ii) DO NOT MENTION HER BLOCKING YOU. ITS SO INSECURE. YOUR TOO BUSY TO CARE!

You gotta social proof the whole thing dude, get some emotions pumping in her, the way you do that is by getting her to invest her thoughts in you. Is there no where you and her bump into each other? You've really got to get this chasing her thing out your head and just rock up with some hotties and blow her out. Maybe even hurt her feelings so she hates you, but don't look insecure else it work completely against you, Speak from a position of strength in your social center. Perhaps work on your style and go peacock crazy because it will allow you to have major confidence knowing your different from everyone else and that your comfortable with yourself. when you get some emotion out of her, be nice to her.. get some deep meaningful secret content out of her, then neg the bitch. (lol) get some jealously plot-lines going. and you'll be a happy boy.


Vince Lynch

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alright bro, thanksfor the reply!

what i do find myself feeling with her is that im still nervous. yes, shes kidna like the special, dream girl puas talk about that come once in every thousand or so girls. sucks eh? haha. but yeah, not interested in having her for sex, but relationship. shes pure fucking ltr material. love her.

so what i did was to - you guessed it - hang out with the other girls. now im not interested in them, but social proofing is necessary like you said, so i made friends with all the girls in the group, except her of course. Shes not the type to respond to social proofing well - some girls are like that - but she defintely opened up to me more. its still a long way to go - rmb im turning hate into attraction into love - its gonna take a while.

still shaping up my game, once i feel good enough, i will game her and start dating. no r/s yet - dating many girls is too fun!

Mr Lynch is right.

Do not buy your way in or refer to a negative experience.

If you are a new man, then be that new man and not a new man with unnecessary bitterness.

But aside from that, I have something you should consider and do not discredit me after I suggest this measure:

The moment after a Man ejaculates; if he thinks about the subject of his One-itis, he will NOT feel the same mental enslavement.

She loses that alluring quality, that smile, that je ne sais quoi.

Your sex drive is halted and your mind is FREE to think.

No more delusions.

But that's one thing.

The other thing is if she deaded you (ignored you, got rid of contact info) then you in turn dead her as well.


Move on.

More fish in the sea.

Be brave.

to be honest...i entered the game because of her, and it will end with her. nothing can change that.


but however, i understand that there are many girls out there, and im having my fun with them. why not take all the fish you can, then go for the big one?

i dont really think its oneitis - my life doesnt revolve around her, what she does doesnt affect me. i dont know how to describe it. i mean, adam lyons eventually settled down with his gf amanda (heard they are married now or something too), and he's a god almighty MPUA, so i guess i found my 'amanda' too early. i wish i never met her this early - a couple of years later would be perfectly fine, but fuck it, i cant change that fact anymore.


no worries though, its still game on, party on, club on for me! i'll save the best for last.

BIG UPDATE:

I just realised, she is most likely attached now, and not just to any guy, she's with a natural alpha. what should i do? destroy him using bf destroyers?

i honestly dont think anyone is going to reply to your thread anymore.....

and the reason is because you're sunk....

let it go..... only time will

1. make you feel better
2. give you a shot in the future (if there is a chance even then)

think of a chick that you werent attracted to that liked you....

there is NOTHING she could do that will change your mind.. gifts and shit and sweet thigns will make u think shes pathetic and you'd feel sorry for her...

u see her physically unattractive.. this one sees u as personality unattractive...different types of attraction... same outcome.... put urself in her shoes and think about how you look in her eyes... in the past... yesterday and now....

go away..... be kewl if she tries to talk to you.. otherwise dont be a dick just dont spend any time on her... maybe in a few months -year(s) you can march in a super man and she wont know what hit her with all your confidence and cokiness.


good luck
seriously though move on

and TRUST me.... i know how hard it is to move on fr someone you love....
thing is u havent even been intimate with this one... why you so hung up on her. let it go

you WILL only do more harm then good if you keep at her... guaranteed...

thanks dude.

im already preparing to move on. as the traditional afc saying goes, "you love her, you want to see her happy, even if you are not with her". but its difficult, cos i KNOW the dude shes with now is only after sex. yes thats right, fuck and dump, and he calls her his "girlfriend". pathetic and she doesnt know.
they havent done anything yet but im sure he will.

im sarging this week away and next week. preoccupying myself with other girls.

btw, i have NEVER tried gaming her or seriously tried generating attraction in this girl. Im gonna give it a shot. Run full on game as usual and see where it goes. Cheer me on.

Cheers!

AFC is creeping back. Actually, if you read every one of your posts, it screams out loud and clear.

I don't doubt this one is pretty amazing, but I speak from experience in saying that in a VERY short period of time, you can find another and another. And I'm not saying just finding hot chicks. I'm talking relationship material. I have stupidly high standards and in the past 6 months. I've met 2 worth more than fucking. Had the opportunity to fuck one and be with for a few weeks (weird ish happened).

There are approximately 3 billion women in the world. Of those, probably 500-750 million fall into your age range.

You've met a few hundred in your life time? Maybe a couple of thousand IF you're super social and make it a point of getting to know every woman who's physically attractive. That puts you having met 1 out of every 375000 women...

You don't have to completely discount this one. Just be willing to meet another "Amanda". And if you some how magically don't, then come back to this one in a few months/years.

im on my way to fixing this shit bro, already heading for a sarge this week. i like the few months thing. i strongly agree with that too.